marthamydear Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 my ex and i have been nc for about 3 months now. he dropped me, so there was no "break up" talk or discussion about the relationship ending at all. he has about 15 of my favorite cd's, as well as a few books, and a keyboard that i let him borrow. i have some books and dvd that belong to him. it is wrong for me to break nc to ask for my stuff back? i'm still a little uneasy about the whole break up, so i don't want to stir up bad feelings. but he has a lot of my crap, and frankly, i don't think he should get to keep it. any of you have advice for getting your stuff back? was it worth it? did it mess things up even more? Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 No more wrong then him "dropping" you with no real ending. Ask him but be civil about it. Link to comment
Reluctant Rebuilder Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 I suggest you find a neutral 3rd party. Do you have common friends? Pack his stuff up in a box and have him/her deliver it. No need to risk a painful relapse or even an awkward moment while you make the exchange when someone who won;t be bothered by it can do it for you. That's what I did anyway. Link to comment
annie24 Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 yeah, I agree, pack up all his things, send him an e-mail saying you are going to return his stuff and would like your stuff back also. have a mutual friend pick up your stuff. in the end though, if he doesn't want to or can't "find" your stuff, don't worry, it is just stuff. Link to comment
betrayedgirl Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 Stuff can be replaced. When my ex dumped me.. I returned his groceries that he bought for my place while he was at work so I wouldn't have to see him. Link to comment
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