I acted bratty...how to clear it up?

[BrokenHeart82]

Ok new relationship, things are good...except i have had some walls up and hes noticed.

 

 

Anyhow we went out this weekend and I was more open to him, with subtle affection since we were out with others...associating with others and giving him his freedom to do the same but things were more warm then they have been. I realized I probably have been the problem here.

 

Anyhow things get hot and heavy and sex seemed inevitable but he turned it down, said its too soon. Now, in the aftermath i realize he's right...probably should wait. But at the time i felt dejected and acted bratty...even stating i thought id go ahead and leave. We made up, but im wondering should i say anything more to him or just let my actions speak louder and just not let this happen again?

[luvursmile]

Maybe you should just excuse yourself for your behavior. Just tell him, "About the other night....I'm sorry..." etc.

Try to open up more, I know its hard sometimes, but he deserves a chance. Seems like a nice, understanding guy to me.

[Day_Walker]

Since you are concerned about it then you should probably appologize for your behavior.

[BrokenHeart82]

I said i was sorry then and there and then when i responded to an email from him i apologized for acting in such a way.

 

Guess im wondering if this is something better left at sorry and him forgiving and then moving on, and not letting it happen again or should i do more?

[Lily04]

hi,

 

I think you should leave it at that. No need to dwell over it, it will make you look desperate and a bit insecure about your actions. You already apologized, he accepted it, now you just have to get back on track with dating and enjoy it!! If you want to have sex with him again just ask coyly perhaps like 'are you ready now?' and let him decide.

 

I actually think it's really respectful of him to say he wants to wait as most guys would just jump the boat!! wow, that is quite a guy lol.

 

take care,

 

Lily

[DN]

I think you should also think about why you have had some walls up with him - that may be why he thought it was too soon to have sex with you.

[need2bme]

I agree with DN...

 

the other thing you might do is run whatever you are going to say, past your brain first.

 

I have a habit of saying what is on my mind and it has gotten me in trouble more times than I wish to admit.