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For the past year or so I've been having problems with sex. I do get turned on but physically it seems as if I'm still a virgin. My boyfriend (and my last) has trouble getting in. He says that it seems like everytime we have sex he is taking my verginity. I'm always very dry so it can be painful at times. I also have a feeling, mostly when he is thrusting, that I feel like I have to go to the bathroom and it hurts. I've tried changing positios, going to the bathroom before hand, and I tried to wait it out. I've read that sometimes you get that feeling before you orgasm especially if the g-spot is being stimulated. Afterwords I sometimes have an intense sharp pain. Also sometimes it gets so bad and I get so sore that I have to make him stop. He always does but he feels bad for "hurting" me. He thinks it's his fault but it has happened with others. I feel as if I can't please him. I also get yeast infections sometimes and UTIs. My doctor checked me out and said there really isn't anything going on that concerns him. But I don't know if it is supposed to be like this or if something is wrong. I mean it feels good but 15, 20 minutes into it I just can't take it anymore. The feeling is very hard to describe. Has anything similar happened to anyone? Is it normal? Is there something I can do to make things better? Any response on this would be great!

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Do you guys do enough foreplay?


Lubrication is important and a lot of women need foreplay to get lubricated.


Without lubrication there is too much friction and it'll hurt.


So either increase the amount of foreplay (oral stimulation, finger play, kissing etc) or use some sort of KY jelly for lubrication until your body starts to generate its own.

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