I can't help Blushing - What do women think of it?

[Davey99]

Hi

 

I don't know why I do it but in many varying situations, like when the attention is on me.. I blush, and I mean CRIMSON. Vey very noticeable.

 

Anyway, in the next few days there is a good chance I'll be going on a date with someone I met online (we live in the same town). I'm not as shy as some people on here but I am a little.. When I go on this date I will be red as a beatroot for most of the night. You have to understand that I do this pretty much uncontrolably, like even if there is no reason to blush.. I will feel myself going red and that only perpetuates it.

 

If I can ask the women here, what goes through your head when you see a guy you are talking to 'blush', for no apparent reason? I know it amuses the hell out of the girls at work, but they know me and aren't bothered by it..It can be quite funny at times... But on a date??

 

Thanks for any replies

 

Dave

[Aurian]

I would find it cute and charming. I know it feels embarrassing (I'm a blusher too), but it makes me feel a bit more relaxed if I see that you are nervous too.

[Honey Pumpkin]

Do you know, it's probably not as noticeable as you think. I know to you, it's like you're glowing crimson, but it's not that bad. It could be down to central heating, walking, high colour - honestly, people just don't notice that much! Especially if you're pink quite a lot of the time - if you don't act nervous, I would assume that it was just your colouring and not think about it if I were on a date with you! If I did notice, I would just think it was cute - wow, someone that worked up about being with me? Nice...!!

 

have a fab date, enjoy!

[Davey99]

Ok feeling better now, thank you

 

Although I know it's very noticeable since people at work like to comment on it occasionally.. Not just because they know what to look for but you can honestly see it.. But if it's seen as 'cute' then Im not going to stress so much over it

 

Thanks again

Dave

[charley]

Ya, I'm also a blusher to, unless I have a bit of a tan at end of summer.

 

Some women are very in tune to that and do notice it, especially if they know you well and are familiar with your normal color.

 

When the women at work tell dirty jokes, sometimes I turn pink and they comment on it and laugh all the more and are self satisfied for having made me blush. If they ask me if I like one woman or another, if the answer is yes, I turn pink and they comment on it and laugh themselves silly.

 

Some women are very in tune and observant. Others are not.

 

Here's the good news: The ones who are observant and notice it tend to think it's cute and funny. The ones who don't notice don't notice.

[crazy300]

Ok feeling better now, thank you

 

Although I know it's very noticeable since people at work like to comment on it occasionally.. Not just because they know what to look for but you can honestly see it.. But if it's seen as 'cute' then Im not going to stress so much over it

 

Thanks again

Dave

 

hey,

 

what do u mean by "blush", do you mean going red while still making eye contact and laughing OR

 

Looking down or away with an embarrassed laugh or wide smile for no reason.

 

Coz the guy i liked kept doing the latter....

[Davey99]

hi

 

Probably more the former... I can usually work through it and 'act' like i'm not blushing.... But I'm not sure how it will go on a blind date. Girlfriends in the past I have known already so it hasn't been so bad.

[rocio]

If it makes you feel any better, I blush all the time. Even when I'm not really embarrassed! It just happens.

 

I know people find it "cute" but I don't like it.

[vermilion]

I blush a lot too! I just feel nervous or uncomfortable- especially when talking to guys I like.

 

People notice and say something which makes me blush even more.

 

I HATE IT!

 

So, if a guy did it I wouldn't think anything of it, in fact I'd be relieved to know he felt nervous.

[skyjuice]

Hi

 

I think it would be cute.

[Portage]

I think a shy guy is adorable. As long as he is interested, puts effort into the convo, has a sense of humour, looks good in red...

 

LOL - you'll do great

[Markers]

I used to have the same problem. It happened when someone got me embarrassed, obviously. While my physiology probably hasn't changed that much, I blush less - because I have become more confident and it would take really really something to embarrass me. So maybe you need to just work on your confidence a lot, I bet the blushing will reduce too.

[cpc28655]

I feel like stating the painfully obvious. Women are just as diverse as us men are. There are those that think it is cute, there are those that will think it is stupid and be less than understanding about it. Cherish the former, forget the latter.

[dashbreak]

it happens to me alot when i'm talking to girls i like

 

i hate it when the notice it and draw it to every1s attention then it gets worse and i feel both stupid and embarrassed