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Its been exactly 5 months and 5 days since my gf and i have been dating. Ive seen her close to everyday and i love her to death. Its just sometimes i think we see eachother way too much. We go to school together so we see eachother everyday. And we always spend our weekends together. I know some good advise would be to spend more time with our friends, but it seems we both are limited in the friends category; At lest i am.

I cant help but feel a little annoyed with her sometimes. Shes always been like this but it never bothered me before. I want to spend time away from her for a while, without taking a break. And without her thinking that im going to break up with her. I know it sounds weird but i love her too much to let her go.(even if it is just for a short time) I just dont know what to do or where to go. I need some advise on how to handle this situation.

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Well, you dont have to break up with her to spend time away from each other. Just try to spend less time together and more time with friends and family. Just sit down and talk about what you are feeling and tell her it is not about breaking up, but about setting some boundaries. Communication is always important in any relationship, remember that!

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I felt the way you do now about six months ago. And I was also worried that my boyfriend would think that I wanted a "break" from the relationship.


So I told him that I needed some time to myself but that didn't mean in any way shape or form that I wanted a break from our relationship.


He was fine with it and after I had the chance to be alone for a bit I felt okay again.


Our relationship survived unharmed.


Just tell her what you need and reassure her that this isn't the end.

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