What Should I Do? I Really Need Your Help!

[dannyclass18]

I met up with a girl on holiday who is mates with my friends from Dublin. During the 2 weeks, we spent most of our time together. We later, went to meet up with her and my friends from Dublin, again I spent most of my time with her. She came over from Ireland to Edinburgh to visit her sister who lives there, we met up (I live in Glasgow) and again we spent most of our time together. However, instead of me trying to pull her, I didn't have the guts to tell her how I felt, and while visiting her in Edinburgh, my cousin who was also on the holiday together and fully knowing my feelings for her pulled her!

 

So, do you think there was nothing go to happen with her in the first place or just an idiot who got himself needlessly hurt by not telling her his feelings?

 

I won't see her probably until January, but she may be moving to Edinburgh next year to go to university there!

 

So should I now tell her how I feel because I can't lose anymore (even with me not seeing her until January)? Or should I just leave it and forget about her?

 

Another problem is, I am almost 100% certain she overheard a conversation I was having with my friend about me liking her!

 

What should I do? How should I go about things? (If possible, could you answer in detail as this is very important to me)

 

Thanks

[SarCareBear]

You should undoubtably go for it! The worst possible outcome is that she has no feelings for you, and the awkwardness will subside and you may talk to her as a friend eventually. But based on all the signals you've received, it looks like she has a crush on you! so tell her now, and prepare for a happy visit in January

[Babelouee]

Danny I was in a similar situation until the other day, I was seeing a guy from England + I live in Ireland, everything was wonderful for 3 months but the distance became a strain and now I'm heartbroken!

Think carefully!

Good luck