Advice, Opinions and P.O.V needed

[Deserted1]

Thanx in advance for those who respond. My ex and I broke up in June 06. We have been NC for 3 months now. Since the break up, her Dad has wanted to keep in contact via E-mail with me. We started to get close when I went to him for advice about his daughter. He E-mails now and then about general stuff, no relationship things, and I respond. I just received an E-mail 2 days ago, it's been a few months since the last one. I haven't responded to this one yet. I'm OK with this, but I am wondering if this is going to help or hurt my NC/healing situation? So far I feel that I'm getting over her. Is this contact healthy? Is there an alterior motive possibly? Anyone else have a similar situation?

[bebecole]

i think you should do whatever you feel is rite.. if you dont feel conforable talking to him then i think you should tell him that.. i dont think theres anything wrong talking to him if it has nothing to do with his daughter..

quite honest i wish i still talked to my Ex's mother.

[AwdreeHpburn]

I can see where it may be uncomfortable but he obviously felt a connection to you.

 

Maybe you could just ask him...."do you think EX-GF is OK with us keeping in touch?"

 

He may be thinking about it's appropriateness as well. I don't see the harm in mentioning it. He may have something very solid to offer in response....

[Deserted1]

Ta_ree_saw, her dad said before that he "didn't care if she liked it or not, that she would need to grow up". She told me that she was OK with it, in one of our last convos. It's kind of funny because age-wise I fall right in the middle of Dad and daughter.