Shudder Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 what goes through your head when a guy asks you out? Link to comment
Baby Carrot Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Several things. Some of them: a) I say to myself "Woah you must be looking hot today" b) He totally wants to nail me c) Is this a good candidate for a date? d) Do I like him? Do I see myself on a date or even in be with this dude? Link to comment
Jayar Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Hmmm... Good question. First I ask myself if I am attracted to him. If not, I politely decline telling him I am already involved in a relationship (if I don't know the guy) or that I just got out of a long-term relationship and I'm not really looking to date at the moment (if he is sort of in my circle of friends, so knows I'm single). If I AM attracted to him, the next thing that goes through my mind is what nights would be good for me, so that I can respond accurately if he suggests for Friday or Saturday, and avoid the embarrassing rescheduling of plans if I happen to double book an evening. Otherwise I just try not to say or do anything stupid to make him regret his decision to ask me out! Link to comment
BornToResist Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 I debate whether to give him a fake number or a real one. Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 I usually get extremely nervous, because if it's a random guy I don't know who he is or what his intentions really are. If it's a guy I know and I'm not interested, I get nervous because I feel bad having to say no. If it's a guy I know and I am interested, I get nervous because I don't want to act like an idiot. All around anxiety haha. Luckily now I can just say, sorry I have a boyfriend! Link to comment
Shudder Posted December 4, 2006 Author Share Posted December 4, 2006 I debate whether to give him a fake number or a real one. can i ask why do you do this? Link to comment
colors Posted December 4, 2006 Share Posted December 4, 2006 Welll that depends on the guy. If it is one I like or am attracted to...I think...yippeee!!!! and get all giddy like a school girl (in my head, but remain calm in person) If it is one I don't like or am not comfortable with...I think, how do I get out of this??? what can I say?? damn I why do I attract the wrong men. But if it is one I'm not into or I'm not scared of.... just in the middle. than maybe I give him my number & we become friends or see where it goes. Link to comment
wexmen Posted December 5, 2006 Share Posted December 5, 2006 i am a guys , in boy pespective , ask a girl out does mean something ,wheater it is a date or not , it all depends on what he is going to talk to you like studys or working , if he talks to you something other than that , i bet the date is what you are thinking. Link to comment
BornToResist Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 can i ask why do you do this? Why would I give him a fake number? Well in my past experience I have been approached by very assertive, dominant men who really don't want to take no for an answer. If I'm not interested whatsoever, this is a surefire way to get them to leave me alone and not have the face-to-face pressure of turning them down, if that makes sense. Link to comment
atraceofblood Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 Why would I give him a fake number? Well in my past experience I have been approached by very assertive, dominant men who really don't want to take no for an answer. If I'm not interested whatsoever, this is a surefire way to get them to leave me alone and not have the face-to-face pressure of turning them down, if that makes sense. yeah but why can't you be honest? I still don't understand lol. Link to comment
BornToResist Posted December 6, 2006 Share Posted December 6, 2006 I can be honest. I've turned guys down before. But I do give out fake #s too. Just depends on the situation, and I don't feel so bad about it either. Guys can be really persistent sometimes, that's all. It's not like there's some huge explanation why...I just do. Link to comment
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