sasky101 Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 Hey guys, Just a random quick question. So me and my man have been having sex for a short while now...and things are great, don't get me wrong. Its just that there's one thing. He likes it when I am on top...I'm kind of the crazy, energetic fun girl when we are with all of our friends...but in the bedroom, not so much. I mean I am....until it comes to that. I very much love to be in control it's just that when I do I giver' haha. This may sound weird but I don't want to hurt him or anything. So the whole time I'm on top I worry about like breaking his member...heh. I spend too much time worrying that I can't enjoy it. any advice? Just looking out for the little fella' Link to comment
melrich Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 They're tougher to break than a Tonka Toy. Seriously. Link to comment
sasky101 Posted November 16, 2006 Author Share Posted November 16, 2006 Thanks melrich...I'm just worried about being too rough Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 Dont worry about breakin him.. if guys were breakable I would have already broke my bf.. as melrich said, they are alot harder to break than tonka toys and infact he may actually enjoy it the "rougher" you are and the harder you thrust atleast I know my bf loves it and he will let you know if it starts hurting him. Let yourself go all out for once in the bedroom, its alot mroe fun! Link to comment
FCTex Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 I've had a few girls ride me too hard and one wrong move, with some pressure, and I've had them make my junk "pop".. It's just a muscle or something that pops when bent.. It doesn't really hurt, so much as it is loud. Kinda like popping your fingers, but really loud. Otherwise... Ride away.. Rough is good sometimes. Link to comment
Cardinal Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 I thought you could actually break a bone or tear a ligament down there? Am I wrong. My biggest concern is having her come out of me and come down on me with a lot of weight and momentum. It might not break a bone, but it sure does seem like it could tear a ligament or something. I need to do some more asking around. Link to comment
sasky101 Posted November 16, 2006 Author Share Posted November 16, 2006 A pop? lol....That would freak me out! Thanks for the warning...now if it happens I'll hope thats all it was. Link to comment
FCTex Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 I've had them come off of it and ram back down on it.. That definitely hurts.. If not enough to stop for a minute, it'll shut you down the the evening. As for the pop.. It's just that.. a muscle/ligament that pops at the base.. Trust me, I dated a nympho before- I've done it all. Link to comment
sasky101 Posted November 16, 2006 Author Share Posted November 16, 2006 I've had them come off of it and ram back down on it.. Oh my...I can only imagine....reading that made me cringe. Times like this I'm glad I don't have to deal with that Link to comment
Cardinal Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 In my experience when they are really wild and out of control on top, I pretty much have to hold their hips down and push back to keep them inside me. As the guy in that scenario, you pretty much can't move at all. It is just too frantic and she will come out. Link to comment
FCTex Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 Slow and easy my friends... slow and easy.. Link to comment
may55 Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 I think the more practice you get the better it will be. I know it took me awhile to get of being on top. Also, please for pete's sake try other positions! Maybe this is not gonna be the best one for YOU. I am sure there is one that will work for you both. There are so so sooo many out there. Get a book (there are many) with pictures and tell him you have a surpise, pick one out together... Good luck! Link to comment
DizzyDoris Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 Mmm i love going on top, try rotating your hips going in slow circular movements, feels real nice! If you feel a bit shy, try going on top but facing away from him, this ones called the reverse cowgirl haha!! Great for you, and he gets a great view of your bum! Link to comment
Deviant_Kate Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 I thought you could actually break a bone or tear a ligament down there? Am I wrong. My biggest concern is having her come out of me and come down on me with a lot of weight and momentum. It might not break a bone, but it sure does seem like it could tear a ligament or something. I need to do some more asking around. You CAN break your penis - I don't remember the exact term for it or exactly WHAT gets broken, but if it were to happen, the owner of the penis would know IMMEDIATELY because it IS really painful and needs immediate medical attention or you could lose your ability to ever get another erection. But it's pretty rare, and QUITE painful, so you'd be able to tell the difference between a harmless pop and an actual injury. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 I may be coming from a different school of thought here the last thing on my mind when a girl is on top is that, "i hope she is gonna be gentle" Link to comment
sparkle1 Posted November 16, 2006 Share Posted November 16, 2006 All of the above- sound advise. I think we worry to much about everything when we are on top! god only knows why but i'm always thinking "am i being to hard, to slow, to soft, is he looking at my tummy, am i keeping him hard..." WOMEN! The whole breaking his penis thing - i've heard of it happening but it is extremely rare. I don't think i've ever thought about it before reading this thread. Men, i think, tend to like it when we are going for it,and getting off on them (so to speak!) ...so relax. I'm sure your partner would comment if something didn't feel right. Daywalker - you are a legend!! I love your posts...they make me laugh!! Sparkle xx Link to comment
treefrogkate Posted November 18, 2006 Share Posted November 18, 2006 Some of the best sex I've ever had was with me on top... and going excruciatingly slow... like 5-6 strokes a minute. I wouldn't be able to do it like this all the time, but it's a fun change of pace, no worries about being too rough and breaking stuff, and man did it leave a big grin on his face. Link to comment
unface Posted November 18, 2006 Share Posted November 18, 2006 A pop? lol....That would freak me out! Thanks for the warning...now if it happens I'll hope thats all it was. You just have to work your way up to it. The only time there'd be a problem is if you go up to high and he slips out and you land square on the top of his tool. That hurts! Just slowly build up to the point where you're skilled enough to ride hard and not have it slip out and you'll be good. When inside, the penis is invincible. Link to comment
TxRedheadGuy Posted November 19, 2006 Share Posted November 19, 2006 Sasky, you are not gonna break it - impossible to do. Popping can be slightly painful, bending it in half is a little more painful, and if you get too excited you can miss and it gets painful for you. All in all - guys like it rough so go for it Link to comment
sasky101 Posted November 19, 2006 Author Share Posted November 19, 2006 Sasky, you are not gonna break it - impossible to do. hehe I know that now guys....figured it out for myself and it was awesome Thanks for the help!! Link to comment
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