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do you have a small penis (or think you do?)


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haha. i like what robowarrior said.

 

i think that it's not really the size, but how you work it baby. hahaha.

 

 

And how do you make it work? Ok, seriously....

 

I've heard that a circular motion or looking for the g-spot would compensate for lack of size, instead of thrusting motions circular motions would predominate on lower sizes. Is this true?

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I think my penis seems small sometimes, which is one of the reasons I dont like viewing porn that much, because the male actors there seem to have large penises that go on thrusting motions and are more musclar than I am, and it undermines my own confidence on whether I can pleasure someone with my own penis size. I'm not saying it's small or anything, but it could get pretty tiny sometimes when it's not erect that it scares me a bit, and I think it's because I'm under my mom or tend to be too submissive around women and that behaviour causes the size to shrink.

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Ofcourse the flat chested and/or overweight girls have to make up for what they don't have to turn us on TiredMan.. They do that by giving good head!

 

 

No seriously it must differ from girl to girl, as some men are turned on more if the girl has large breasts/nice * * */nipple pierced and so on..

 

I have no idea when some women say "size helps" what it is they are saying.. I dont really know how high women normally rank the size.. it sometimes seems like it is in the top 10 in a man, when I read some of the replys here. But with my personal experience with women, I have never noticed any problems or hints or anything related to my size..

 

I do not have a large penis(5.5") about the same around, but still my GF klimaxes 9/10 times we are together. And she has told me that I am the best she has been with, she has not mentioned my size, but she said she thought it was because she never loved anyone as much as me. And because of the way I touched her, never went before she did and other stuff.. I guess in her case it is love and emotion that turns her on, and not the feeling of a big one inside of her.. And it has been the same way with previous partners..

 

Never asked her about my size directly since everything seems okay, and it would seem like I was unconfident about my size if I did..

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See, I disagree with that. Boobs are just as important as penis or anything else.

 

But women with smaller boobs are not exactly seen as negatively to some as the dudes with the small penises. I'm not just talking porno stuff. And let's not forget the women out there with the wide vaginas as well. That is a subject not talked about very often.

 

Point being that if a guy is said to be small or whatnot, they usually have to "make up for it" somehow like "what you do with it" or "tongue" etc. Women with small/drooy boobs and/or wide vaginas don't see to have that stigma. It's probably because so many guys will pretty much have sex with anything that moves sadly.

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Ofcourse the flat chested and/or overweight girls have to make up for what they don't have to turn us on TiredMan.. They do that by giving good head!

 

Well I wouldn't count overweight with any of this. In most cases, being overweight is entirely controllable. It's not like a part you are born with with penis, boobs, vaginas etc...

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well, I thought that the bottom line was that while there are some women out there that only want a man with a huge penis (just like there are some men that only want skinny women with large breasts), not everyone feels that way.

 

I know plenty of men that like women who are more overweight, and I know some men who prefer smaller breasts. And then a lot of guys may have a preference for large breasts or skinny women, but it isn't a dealbreaker. It is that way with women and penises also. It's the man that it's attached to that's important.

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I agree but one is more pravelent than others. Take porn for example. There are many women with huge boobs and guys with huge penises. BUT, there are not many guys with small penises but there are still many women with very small boobs who are considered the "top" of the chain when it comes to those movies. There is a reason for that.

 

But the shape of the boobs (perky versus droopy) is not something you see spoken about much. Or large vaginas either.

 

Yes, I agree it's all about the person but that is my POV, just like it's yours but not "society's POV."

 

Let's take the celebrity sex videos that were "released". You had the pamela anderson/Tommy Lee, the girl from Survivor, Parios Hilton, the Fred Durst one, etc. No one commented about the difference between Pamela's chest (which is big but fake) and Paris Hilton (which is real but small). However, many people commented about Tommy Lee's size so positively versus Fred Durst (Limp Bizkit for those that might not know) negatively.

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From the information I have gathered the majority of women, (over 70%) are actually more scared of a penis being too large rather than it being too small. This same group of women are the ones that dont really care about penis size. However there is the another group of women (20%+) that have a preference for larger penises. I believe that many men want to have a bigger penis for the locker room factor, so it seems more like an ego thing rather than to please a partner. Having a larger penis does not mean that sex will be more satisfactory, however it can effect the guys confidence which effects his performance.

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well I would say that it is a personal preference.

 

in the week before this Savage Love, the letter was from a man whose penis was too large and his gf could only have sex for 10 minutes before she couldn't take the pain anymore and made him stop. So, Dan gave techniques he could do to try to make their lovemaking better.

 

I think that penis size is not worth worrying about. it cannot be changed. like he said in the article, any pills or surgeries are at best, ineffective, and at worst, dangerous. Most penis enlargement surgeries do not work, and can leave the men angry, upset, disfigured. There is just no need to mess with your plumbing.

 

Focus on what you can do stuff about, ie, technique. And if you find a partner who loves you, they will be accepting of your penis no matter the size. If they are that picky, maybe they love sex more than they love you.

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Focus on what you can do stuff about, ie, technique. And if you find a partner who loves you, they will be accepting of your penis no matter the size. If they are that picky, maybe they love sex more than they love you.

 

annie24, you aint portraying ppl in a very favourable light eheh. So, if you have a small penis, your hoping you have enough others things going for you(love= wealth, good looks, personality) to make up for the crappy sex.

 

That ain't going to do the guys ego's much good ) btw darling, the 50k a yr your earning is a good enough substitute for the diabolical sex. But, its so very ture of the nature of love, relationships. I feel the ulimate ego boast for men is being able to satisfy their lady sexually, not earning 100k a year. Talk about the lottery of genetics.

 

I feel a large penis is priceless for any man, the confidence and self-esteem if would breed. No hang ups, no rejections sexually, all very helpful towards a blokes ego and fulfilling those irrational drives and instincts which lead towards happiness. If your small, you can't really have relationships based on sex alone, which i wouldn't mind xD aka one night stands or flings etc.

 

I'm small, but i have 200lbs behind it, which gives me an extra inch or two hah the motion of the ocean lol but the motion is better with a thick, juicy one )

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My ex was less than 5 inches and very er...slim. If its hard enough it hits the spot though. I didn't care. What WAS a problem was that sex only lasted about 5 seconds. My husband now is about 8-9 inches and VERY girthy.

 

It might sound retarted, but I have bad judgment when it comes to size of anything. I can't tell how many feet wide a room is any more than I can tell how long a man's penis is. When my husband and I first started dating I couldnt really tell that his penis was bigger than normal. ( I also think that it got bigger the more we started to have sex...every single day). The only reason I took note of this size was because he would make a comment here and there about how his hockey buddies gave him certain nicknames...

 

I was kind of like "oh". And one time his buddy was over and was all wasted and said "yah man, this guy has a freakishly large penis". So I guess I took a second look and saw that it was pretty darn big. Then I wanted to measure. So now I know. Bonus for me I suppose.

 

I guess my point is that I didn't really notice. The difference between our sex and sex with others was that it lasted a long time, and the chemistry was better. Once I had VERY good sex with a man with a small penis. It was ALL about the chemistry. Confidence and chemistry is KEY. Same goes with women.

 

I think a man with a small penis can in some way empower a woman. If he maintains his confidence and focuses on keeping her aroused, what is to lose? A big penis can be intimidating and sometimes make women jump to the conclusion that the guy is conceited (which he often is). I think that by not saying "oh wow its so big" to my guy it kind of put him in his place, maybe he hadn't gotten that reaction before.

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yeah, of my friends that complain about sex, it is never that he is too small or too big or anything, it is more like, "he just takes 5 minutes and that is it" or "He doesn't pleasure me" or "He doesn't know WHAT to do with his penis!" the complaints are never about size, they are always about techniques.

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