Batya33 Posted October 21, 2006 Share Posted October 21, 2006 I have at times been biased against very handsome men because if I feel less attractive than the man I wonder why they would choose me (from my experience the woman of the couple is more attractive than the man). Example - a few years ago I had a first date with a very handsome man. I could have just focused on his looks and had a lovely time. I focused instead on what he had to say. He said all the "right" things about what he wanted, who he was, etc but I sensed something not quite sincere - not insincere just something "off" (maybe it was my bias since he was so handsome). Then, he said the line that was the dealbreaker. I am a petite, thin woman and he said "I love petite women because of how they feel in my arms." At that point, I felt like an objectified Barbie doll (or maybe more like a Dawn doll which, way back then, was Barbie's petite friend). It was over for me - didn't matter what a "hottie" he was. I have met sincere handsome men, insincere unattractive men - not saying there is a correlation, just that I have been known to discriminate against the hotties. Maybe it all started when I had a crush on Horshack from welcome back kotter . .. . . Quote Link to comment
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