Has this ever happened to anyone?

[JDMxTeGrA101]

You get dumped by your ex-girlfriend that you truly loved and did anything for her. She dumped you and gets with a guy and a few months later she wants you back while you guys haven't done NC for a while also. Has this ever happened? I miss her and regret talking to her last week.

[DN]

It has happened for a very few people but that does not mean you should hold out unrealistic hope that it will happen for you. Your best bet is to assume the relationship is over, heal as soon as you can and move on.

[JDMxTeGrA101]

I'm trying my best to but I think about her so much even when I'm busy.

[DN]

That is part of the process - the hardest part. But it will pass sooner or later. Remember the line in my signature - "If you're going through hell, keep going."

[liasonred]

It happened to me.

 

The Ex came back into my life, told me all the gory details about how her and her new guy were. How he wasn't me and how he was aggressive. She used me to make her feel better and went back to him when she had got the help she needed from me.

 

If you think it's going to work out between you two then go with your heart, if you think it isn't then your brain will tell you that your putting yourself in danger here and that you should do what's right for you.

 

My main regret is helping her, not loosing her but helping her and it being thrown in my face.

 

Good luck with your situation dude and look to the future.

[Chibby33]

liasonred is correct. This time use your head; if it looks promising go very slow. Look at it like a business venture, how much are you willing to invest and are the risks greater than the rewards? How stable does it look? THINK, THINK, THINK.

[JDMxTeGrA101]

Well I deleted her off my myspace so I could stop looking at her profile because it bugs me when I look at it because his name is all over her page. I used to be on her top 8 but she took me off and thats when I got mad because I thought i would remain in there. Last week was a good talk with her and lasted for about an hour. Right now I'm doing NC and see what goes from there. Just want to know if she's really missing me or not.