what things did you do.to move on

[jue]

just curious as to what people have done to move forward...

 

 

its too me along long long time to get here but im doing it..slowly..but still

 

 

part of mine was to..

 

1.move..which i did

 

2.find a new job...still trying with that one

 

3.get rid of anything to do with him...which i have apart from a few photos which have my kids on also..so they are stored away

 

 

4..this is the toughest..i am friends with his sister..i was before we got together..

 

had to remeind her.the other day..not to talk about his birthday to me..i got upset once she started going on what they had planned for him

 

 

any more suggestions on how to move forward...gratefully received..thanks

[desertnomad]

Take up a new hobby or get more involved with an old one. Its the only thing that has kept me sane.

[trash mail]

i realised that i was in control of myself and my situation. Things were only out of control because i let it go out of control.

you can control you reaction and your emotions.

As soon as i figured that out, things got better.