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5 weeks of NC, several chance meetings with lots of physical stuff but after being ignored by my ex for another date (at her request) I ask her what gives.

 

My Spanish is still not good enough for this kind of thing so my text says "So do we get to see each other again or not?", she ignores me.

 

Later I cannot relax about this, it's a simple question after all. I just want a yes or no by now. A follow-up:

 

"I don't understand. Are you going to talk to me or are you badly educated?" (Spanish for rude)

 

She replies straight away "Can't call right now, I am in the gym". She can text but not call? Right.

 

I reply after several fuming hours:

 

"Exercising your body or your cold, cold heart? I really liked you but I am so bored. Goodbye and take care."

 

She replies immediately (as if she wanted me to give up on her, in fact exactly like that), with "kisses". How weird is that?

 

Anyway, she clearly has problems saying "yes" or "no" so I won't be back in a hurry, but boy did I love her.

 

------------------------------- THE END -----------------------------

 

River Dog

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I havent been following your situation but I have to tell you that I frequently text people when I dont in fact have time or maybe I have a couple minutes but I dont like calling people from the gym, the car etc. Some people just have different phone habits. I screen my calls all the time cause Im busy and then I call people when I actually have a relaxed moment and can give them my undivided attention.

 

Again - havent read up on you and your ex but also want to tell you that pushing angrily for an answer almost always results in a negative reply or a brush off.

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I screen my calls all the time cause Im busy and then I call people when I actually have a relaxed moment and can give them my undivided attention.

 

That would have been nice, but I did say "I reply after several fuming hours". She could have called me later but she didn't, just as she ignored the arrangements for a date last week (and this was her asking me out after limited contact and me dating other women).

 

So, I drove an 80 mile round trip to find the cinema and pick up a programme, singing all the way (aaah). That was on my birthday, by the way (aaah).

 

want to tell you that pushing angrily for an answer almost always results in a negative reply or a brush off.

 

I was angry and feel a lot better for expressing it and why not? I couldn't care about how she feels. I am bored with her and her games. She has never had a serious boyfriend and she is 32, living with her folks. I am beginning to figure out why, she's a flake and I hate that I love her.

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What do you plan on doing at this point?

 

Thanks Scout. I have no idea. Nothing that involves talking to my ex, I hope. I followed all the advice to get her back, except "move on" There is another lovely lady in the works but there is logistical baggage there which could be sorted I guess, but it means dealing with her own break-up and kids etc. yuk. Not sure I have it in me at the moment.

 

My ex seems to be one of those that hates anyone who actually likes her so I can only assume she has a very low self esteem. I am not just a whining loser on this. The sun shone out of my rrrrs until I reciprocated to her daily advances of "love". Then I didn't see her for the dust. Hurt like hell and no way I could have seen it coming. No way back either, it seems Well, she got the best I could give and that is more than most.

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She's 32? That's a bit surprising. Honestly, from her texts she sounded, well, a lot less mature than I would imagine someone 32 should be.

 

What is it that you love about her? It might be good to at least pinpoint the positives you like. Then should you decide to seek other women, you can look for those that have some of those good qualities (and hopefully, none of the negative ones that your ex possesses).

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