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Hows it goin everybody.

 

I'm in a situation I would like some opinions on. Me and this chick hooked up a couple times in the past but never really got too serious. Mainly cause of me I guess. She now lives 10 hours away at college. Anyways this summer we hooked up again and I totally just fell for her, I dont think I love her but I really really really like her. I dont know what the hell happened, she has me mesmermized now. So we mess around maybe twice this summer, then she goes out of state for two weeks. She comes back and says she doesn't wanna see me anymore. She was going to be intown for only two more months. She said she missed me a lot while she was away and since we can't have a relationship, (because she lives far away) she said and I quote this, wants to "detach" herself from me.

 

So do you think there is some other hidden reason she did this? She wont even answer my calls, completely ignoring me basically. She doesn't live here now so I guess it makes things easier, but I feel like chasing after her but I know thats not a good idea. any opinions please..

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, all I can say.

 

I guess I sent out mixed signals, I mean, in the end its was really all my fault. I did make any serious moves, but it's kind one of those things were its the desire thats eating me up. When i'm with her the desire to just grab her and kiss her is not as strong as it is when i'm not with her if that makes sense.

 

what clue gave it away that she's over it?

 

*mind you guys we never had sex

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Yeah I know you are right. But if we had a chance I know we could have somethin good. You dont think there is any truth to the 'detaching' thing? How do you think she should of reacted if she was diggin me? Continue to see me until she left for school? thanks for all the replies btw.

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From what I can see, she enjoyed your company, then she left. While she was away she started thinking about the long term of it all. She had doubts whether this would work out, if she would get hurt by moving into something more substantial, decided that it wasn't going to work so she wants to distance herself emotionally hence the detach thing.

 

She's backing away and I don't think you can change her mind on this one, sorry.

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one of the last things she said to me was, just because it didn't work out this summer doesn't mean it won't next. I dont know if she's trying to let me down easy or something, I told not her to bother with that bs and just tell me how it really is, but she never changed what she said.

 

idk I can move on. But honestly I think we have a good connection, good chemistry. Just had a rough start..

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one of the last things she said to me was, just because it didn't work out this summer doesn't mean it won't next. I dont know if she's trying to let me down easy or something, I told not her to bother with that bs and just tell me how it really is, but she never changed what she said.

 

I don't like the sound of this, take your own advice and get over her a.s.a.p.

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harsh responses, all of em lol.

 

thanks for all the advice redqueen, funny thing about all this is that she totally came on to me when we first met, it was all her in the beginning. Honestly the only thing that really bugs me about this is the fact that she won't return my calls, frustrating...

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