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Okay... so there's an older man at work that i am incredibly attracted to... He's 12 years older and policy states that I am not allowed to date him, but we exchange e-mails with one another all day, every day at work... He's gorgeous, funny, intelligent... What's not to like? But for some reason... He will not make the first move! Or maybe I just haven't been as direct with him as I need to be... Should I approach him or let the flirting continue and see where it leads? Someone please help!

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Okay... so there's an older man at work that i am incredibly attracted to... He's 12 years older and policy states that I am not allowed to date him, but we exchange e-mails with one another all day, every day at work... He's gorgeous, funny, intelligent... What's not to like? But for some reason... He will not make the first move! Or maybe I just haven't been as direct with him as I need to be... Should I approach him or let the flirting continue and see where it leads? Someone please help!

 

You answered your own question (bolded text).

 

He might be interested, but not interested enough to risk losing his job. If you are direct with him, you run the risk of losing YOUR job.

 

Generally speaking, dating people you work with is not a good idea. There's a reason they say "Don't get your honey where you get your money."

 

I'm one of those who had to learn the hard way, so I'm telling you from first-hand experience...it's best to keep a nice, thick wall between "work life" and "personal life."

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