kadvati79 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 BTW icemotoboy; you're cute! Thanks One does one's best my own relationship ended in part because of the limited sex that my ex and I were having. But I keep waffling back and forth on this issue. I think its a feature of many ends of relationships, but sometimes its a symptom of wider problems, other times its the problem itself. I would have words once again with my partner and for sure that happened.. not exactly like I had planned. When me and my ex began to have problems with our sex, things went from bad to worse. Love was never a problem, heck, we can't even talk to each other on MSN these days (12 months later) without getting choked up. And we both have new boyfriends. What was a problem was that every time he didn't want to have sex, I would try and talk to him about it. But talking about it didn't exactly put him in the mood. In hindsight, I would have seduced him all over again. Instead of always wanting to talk about it... which destroyed the mood. A couple of times towards the end I got so horny I totally didn't hold back and practically forced myself on him... I think he actually liked it. The times our sex life died was I tried to discuss it instead of actually just doing it... Quote Link to comment
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