What should a guy say/do when he "finishes" super fast (premature ejaculation...) ugh

[nakedbob20002000]

Unfortunately, I "finish" super fast...

 

What is the best way to handle these quick-release situations? Should I say nothing and move on to pleasing my partner a different way? Make a joke? Say sorry?

 

Just wondering how to make the best of an embarrassing and awkward situation!

 

Help and Thanks!

[rose2summer]

Don't say anything, just make sure to please her another way.

 

It happens to every man one time or another, and using a condom can also help curb premature ejaculation,

 

I don't think most women would be upset, as long as you cuddle or do some other activities afterwards.

 

Hugs, Rose

[Honey Pumpkin]

Hi there,

 

There's a famous British weblog which had a great piece on how she dealt with a partner's premature ejaculation:

 

link removed

 

I'm sorry, I can't find the specific one though - the blog is entirely sex-orientated, though, and there are a LOT of ideas/thoughts in there from one woman's perspective.

 

Cheers.

[helpme2]

just because your penis thinks it's done doesn't mean you are, there have got to be 1 million different things you can do to please her that doesn't involve your penis.

 

my husband had an "episode" once and he said "wow, you are so hot I couldn't control myself" and then went about pleasing me. It was nice.