could she like me

[probafterprob]

I have a good female friend in school and im starting to fall for her. A friend of mine told her i like her and ever sense then she's been avoiding me. What could this mean? We have known each other for a while.

[vermilion]

Maybe she doesn't like you or is uncertain how she feels about you. Or she likes you but isn't sure if the information she received is correct. You probably won't know unless you ask her personally- avoid communicating through third parties. It makes things too confusing.

[probafterprob]

i hear that

[probafterprob]

i really suck at expressing feelings though. whats a good way to say it.

[Momene]

She may see you as a friend and no more.

[TheRedQueen]

I would think that her avoidance would most likely be indicative of her not being interested in you in a romantic sense.

[Alex84]

The best way is to be perfectly honest. It is hard to express feelings sometimes, but sometimes it needs to be done!

 

What makes this situation worse is that its become complicated from that third party. If she is avoiding you because she doesnt like you, you need to talk to her about that. If she is avoiding you becuase she isnt sure if the information she received is correct then you need to talk to her about that.

 

The problem here is that you dont know which one it is, so you need to talk to her to find out! Sorry, this is a time for expressing feelings!

 

I think you just need to be completely honest, and tell her you dont want to ruin a friendship, and understand if she doesnt feel the same way. Maybe you need to weigh up the importance of this friendship compared to your want for something more. Is it worth loosing her as a friend if you cant get her as a lover? This may not happen, but its a risk. Complicated situation buddy! Goodluck!

[probafterprob]

thanks for the advice