making the first move...

[MetallicAguy]

So, I kinda have problems with making first moves. I often center most of the attention upon myself too much, thereforeeee making me really nervous, and I usually end up passing some chance to chat up some girl by.

 

I was wondering, there's this girl who's in 2 of my classes, I know she's pretty interested in me, I already figured that out, I was wondering how I could get a conversation going with her...besides in-class group activities, do you think on break I should talk to her?

 

See I think break would be a good idea but her friends are out on break and stuff and I don't want to say hey [her name] and have her like not hear me or something and have her friends just stare at me and laugh at me like I'm pathetic or something haha. Ok well maybe I'm thinking too worse-case scenario.

 

Also there's a formal dinner/date event coming up, do you think asking her after my first conversation with her is good? I'm almost 100% sure she wants to go with me, I don't feel like explaining that story so just take my word for it haha.

 

Thanks for your help. And if girls could chip in and give their opinions that'd be awesome.

[g44]

how about doing something romantic to set the tone - make her a card [don't buy one] and take different flower petals and glue them on the cover..and try and draw a picture of both of u walking and holding hands..and write inside...

 

"is this something u might want to do"

 

might be too much for a first impression but at least she will know that u have a romantic side

[MetallicAguy]

umm that's a little too much...i think i'd scare her off. thanks anyway though. anyone else have suggestions?

[bhzmafia]

Dont do that ^^^

 

Just talk to her like youve known her forever, then as your about to leave, turn around and ask her.

if youre 100% positive she will go, then she theres a 99% chance shes told her friends about you, so theyre not gonna bag you or anything.

[g44]

correctly..if its an old flame...i think that would be ok...but if its someone knew maybe something less revealing...

 

my problem is i do crap like that all the time...way too much for people i know...that's my curse

[Markers]

" my problem is i do cra=="

 

I hope you didn't try to say "I do crack"

 

 

 

I wouldn't do that card thing. Talk to her in person, that's the best way to go. It's hard to learn if you're shy but you gotta start somewhere..