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Can anybody give me helpful tips about consoling a women? when my g/f comes to me with a problem , i tell her im sry that happened to you or everything is gonna be fine but it seems thats not enough. she's heard that so many times from diffrent guys it has no meaning. i try my best to help her but the words just won't come. i can't get into words what i want to say. can anybody help, i feel like this is driving us apart. it's almost gotten to the point where she doesn't want to tell me her problem cause she knows i can't help her. i want to become better with this, not just for her but for possible future partners. can anybody help me?

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just listen to her. don't try to fix her problem, don't offer suggestions unless she asks for them. just hold her and let her cry on your shoulder.

 

if I am recalling alright, the Mars and Venus books have a section on exactly this topic. you may want to read the books by John Grey. (The original "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" book)

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