Torchbearer Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Some of you probably know me from the heartbreak boards. Just now got over my ex so I'm excited about that. Been talking to this girl for about two weeks. Certainly nothing serious, we've only been out once. I inquired about her through a mutual friend who said she was eager for me to call her. Here's the deal; she doesn't answer the phone all the time and sometimes waits a day or two to call me back. I guess I can't get too upset I just get eager to hear from her. We went out the other night and made tentative plans for Friday but I remember her saying that she may have a work party. I sent an email to her today to confirm Friday which she textd back that she had to take a raincheck. I playfully txtd back that she owed me and would have to cook for me. She never replied and I called later she didn't pick up. I guess I'll try not to stress. I certainly don't have feelings for her by any stretch but we had a good time on the date and she has a lot of energy. And I'm really attracted to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sfindependent Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 she might be playing the hard to get type, where she wants to draw you in for the kill man. goodluck! and congratulations for getting over your lady. I got a lot of getting over to do so myself... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g44 Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 some people do u know....maybe she has been getting too many telemarketers trying to sell damaged goods.... i myself rarely answer the phone...its usually crappytire telling me how much it will cost to fix the old heap! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torchbearer Posted September 16, 2006 Author Share Posted September 16, 2006 She's probably playing hard to get. Either that or she flat out don't like me LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tretneo Posted September 16, 2006 Share Posted September 16, 2006 Hey Torch... I am kind of going through something similar... I definitely seem to try to contact her more than she does me... and I always answer when she calls but she doesn't.... Hope it all works out for you... I'll be watching your thread to see how your situation develops Rob Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bighair Posted September 16, 2006 Share Posted September 16, 2006 Hi Torch - Yeah...you need to let this girl reach out to you. I was in this type of situation recently...Met a guy on line, made 2 dates, he cancelled both, i initiated all of the IMS, emails...he did call me a few times, but i was the initiator. it's really frustrating to be on the proactive side of the fence.... so, you're worth knowing...let her come to you! R. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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