Paul_09 Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 I've been dating a lady for a while im 18 shes 39, ok thats the situation. We are going to have sex when we get the right time, as we both want it. She often gives me a handjob, and i've done it to her, plus i've been down on her once, and will again when we get time. I give her great orgasms and the other way round. One thing though, she says she would never give me a blowjob, and that won't change, she adiment that she would never do it to anyone as she finds it discusting, and i really want to know what its like. Anyone else been in a simular situation, its annoying me now as i really want it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJRon Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 She is 39. If she doesn't want to give you a BJ. then I'm sorry, I would feel that by that time she would have figured out what she will and will not do. You're SOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quietgrl Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 What !!!! You're 18 and she's 39.Hmmmm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hosswhispra Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 What !!!! You're 18 and she's 39.Hmmmm They're perfectly matched from a sexual peak point of view. Hey, if they're both happy, it can't be bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carl5000 Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 i could imagine its frustrating, your just have to weight up the pros and cons. Is the lack of a blowjob, worth ending the relationship? loll that. You can't force her to do something she isn't comfortable with and perhaps ur have to wait until a future relationship. good luck pretty neat a 39 yr old teacher. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honey Pumpkin Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Agree with all the others - if she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. And it's not like she's going to change her mind,although if you push the subject she absolutely definitely won't! Just be understanding and reassuring. Hopefully she'll like doing other things with you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul_09 Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 We been together for 7 months, i love it with her. We have a complete relationship, with everything from a good social life, to a good sex life (without sex!, but that should change when we get the right time alonge) She still lives with her husband, and me with my mother, but as soon as we can afford a place together next year, we will be together properly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJRon Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Oh my... that little snippet of information just changes so many things... Why are you planning on moving in with a woman 21 years your senior (especially at your age) who is also married? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul_09 Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 I'm a hundred percent in love with her. She makes me feel good, By the time its sorted i willl be 19 and her 40. Whats wrong with this if were both happy? I'm not unusual in anyway, im a normal guy. and i've fallen for her. There are threads on here about how we met in spring. Why can't I love her, especailly when she's left him? The only reason she hasnt left already is cos she would have nowhere to live. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Closure Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Age difference aside, which I won't go into..... She won't give you a blow job? I didn't know they made women like that anymore. You need to ask her to upgrade to VHS because she's currently a betamax! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul_09 Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 Im not too sure why, she likes things dirty, just says im not doing that its discusting. Any ideas if i could change her mind, i would never consider leaving her cos our relationship is amazing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna. Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 To be honest, I feel the way she does. That's just not something i want to do. It's VERY unappealing to me and although I am in love, i doubt even my sweet boyfriend could ever convince me to do it. And pressure from him sure wouldn't help me to be any more inclined, b/c if I ever did try it, it would have to be my choice. So i bet if I feel that way and am set in my ways at 21, then at 39 she's probably that much more set in her ways. Be happy you've found someone you love so much and find other ways she can pleasure you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southerngirl Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 I wouldnt do it for anyone that I was dating. Im married ... its a very intimate act for me. Whoah your messing with a married woman what is wrong with her? You are only going to get hurt.. How did this start? YOu say 7 months ago. How did you meet her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadow25 Posted September 16, 2006 Share Posted September 16, 2006 wo wo wo WO! hold up a second....she lives with her husband.... THERE IS A PROBLEM! She's married mate, what the hell!? She's cheating on her husband for you....do you NOT see a problem with that!? The age gap isn't really a concern, you're right...as long as you're both happy, but...she's CHEATING ON HER HUSBAND! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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