Jay-Sean Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Theres this bird i like at my school, i'm 16 and shes a couple of years older. Right i don't think its possible for a girl to want to go out with a boy 2 years younger especially when there only 16 and she is 18, is this true? I also find it hard to get a girlfriend who is my own age because they have boyfriends who 17/18. So all the fit 16 year olds are taken. So i have to go a year before i can get a girlfriend which is annoying me Link to comment
NKP Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Shes 18 your 16 thats not much age different, just go for it, if you two like each other thats all what matters, dont worry what anyone thinks of it. But just becareful laws are diff everywhere, she might get in crap if yous sleep together, but if yous dont nothing matters then Link to comment
Jay-Sean Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 i don't know if she likes me yet(sorry if i didn't make that clear). I just wanted to know the likelihood of an 18 year old girl fancying a 16 year old boy. I don't think its that likely Link to comment
robowarrior Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 False i know an 18 year old girl who fell in love with a 12 year old boy, they had a sustainable relationship for 2,5 years. So it is possible, really 2 years is within range id go for it if i where you. You shouldn't let age gaps ruin great relationships give yourself some slack space, 3 years age difference if your below 20. (is my standard) Otherwhise the amount of possible partners is reduced to what you can count on one hand. Link to comment
robowarrior Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 You always miss if you never shoot. There are a lot of people who stop themselves and a possible great future just because of the 'rumors' around them. If you like this girl go for it, if she refuses you can say' hey i tried', if she accepts you got a date ^_^ . Link to comment
Jay-Sean Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 I just wanted to know, i'm not even sure if she does like me. I just wanted to know and also she is a fit 18 year old and i'm a meh 16 year old. I'll see how it goes Link to comment
NKP Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Okay then ask her out on a date if you never ask you will never know Link to comment
Jay-Sean Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 so you think an 18 year old girl will want to go out with a 16 year old? im skeptical to say the least. There would be so much we couldnt' do together Link to comment
NKP Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Yes i think so, i am 16 and i am attacked to some 14 year olds Link to comment
Jay-Sean Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 Yes i think so, i am 16 and i am attacked to some 14 year olds i think 18 and 16 is different though because she is legally an adult and i'm 2 years from that Link to comment
NKP Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Yeah but you are not far from it, do you talk to her at all? Link to comment
Jay-Sean Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 Yeah but you are not far from it, do you talk to her at all? sort of, i haven't know her too long but i just was asking in general really Link to comment
NKP Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 oh ok well i could see a 18 year old like a 16 i dont think anything wrong with it at all Link to comment
mystik Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Not to be pessimistic here, but I don't know too many 18 year old girls who would date someone who were 16. It wouldn't be anything personal, and certainly not impossible...but not that likely. Link to comment
PhilliesFan001 Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 My friend Jenny is 18 and dating a 16 year old. They've been dating over a year. Even though she's away at college and he's still in high school, they make it work just fine. Ask her out if there's a specific girl in mind. You never know! Link to comment
mivra Posted September 24, 2006 Share Posted September 24, 2006 go for it! i dated a boy who was 1 year younger than me in high school, and although we got teased at first, everyone soon was cool with it, and we had a good time. there's plenty of older guys with younger women, so why not buck the trend? and it's only two years, after all. good luck Link to comment
meant_to_love Posted October 5, 2006 Share Posted October 5, 2006 Well I was 18 when I fell for my ex-boyfriend who was 16 at the time. However HE deceded he was too immature for me and left and broke my heart.. so yeah maybe Its bad I fall for the younger guys.. whom most arent looking for anything serious at their age. : / Link to comment
DizzyDoris Posted October 5, 2006 Share Posted October 5, 2006 Toyboys are all the craze at the moment lol If you dont ask you'll never know, and if she says no at least you wont be left wandering what if? Personally i think the age gap isnt too much of an issue here, it comes down to attraction, if she likes you she'll not be bothered your younger and will say yes! Now go ask her out quick, before someone else snaps her up! x Link to comment
TheRedQueen Posted October 5, 2006 Share Posted October 5, 2006 Older women ROCK!!!!!!!! Link to comment
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