phosphar Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Typically how many chances do you get with agirl? Like with this one girl she gave me at least 4-5 chances that at the time I didn't see for their face value and didn't take them. half of them happened one semester the other happened about 3 or 4 months later. It wasn't that I pissed her off or made her mad but I was just curious how many chances does a girl typically give a guy? cus it seems like I've received by far too many. To my next question. Every time she sees me she gets really excited almsot as if she hasn't seen me for years. Just the other week she text'd me saying that since her phone was breaking it reminded her of me since my phone once broke. I didn't reply. This was pretty much out of the blue since we didn't really talk for about 2-3 weeks. Then yesterday she calls me and asks me if I want to go work out at the gym with her. I was like umm sure. So tell me is this just her trying to be her overlyfriendly self as usual? Or am I about to blow yet another opprotunity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRedQueen Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Well it seems like you like her, but are you playing hard to get intentionally? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRedQueen Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 The reason why I ask is that she may be super interested in you because you are not giving her attention. I used to LOVE to chase boys who were playing hard to get, but the problem was, once I got them I realized I did not want them after all, that it was all about the chase. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeawutever Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Not that many, if you don't make an effort, then most would have given up and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRedQueen Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Cat and mouse games are things we pursue when we are not emotionally mature or ready to engage ourselves in a healthy intimate relationship. Just think about it, all that time spent chasing could have been spent actually engaging and getting to know each other. Just some food for thought. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momene Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Just go for it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeawutever Posted September 13, 2006 Share Posted September 13, 2006 Playing too much the chasing game, could drive them away so fast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phosphar Posted September 14, 2006 Author Share Posted September 14, 2006 I'm not playing hard to get I even told her once that I liked her but then she told me she thought that was the case and then nothing happened. It was always more that I liked her, then I wouldn't but she'd like me, etc, etc. But today we did work out and it was good but I don't think there's anything there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momene Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 You tried, so at least you know. ... and there was me hoping to be a bridesmaid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phosphar Posted September 14, 2006 Author Share Posted September 14, 2006 Well yeah the only weird thing about the whole workout experience was that she wants me to go with her to Race for the Cure and run with her. and she wants to see me again friday to work out again. Then at the end of the thing she kind of gave me a hug but rubbed her face against mine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sparkle1 Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 She's giving you another opportunity! I for one wouldn't act like this around a guy i didn't want to get to know better....i don't waste my time on guys i don't see as a possible (unless its a possible friendship)...and i certainly don't screech at a 'friend' when i see him! cat and mouse is OK...except one of you always gets hurt...maybe because you are being aloof, she is more into tryin to get you to change your mind - and thinks you've gone off her!? But still stand by opening sentence! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Momene Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 Cat and mouse is OK, provided the man is not a dog (see other thread). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phosphar Posted September 15, 2006 Author Share Posted September 15, 2006 I know this girl pretty well now we use to hangout a lot last year. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
g44 Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 a rule book? like can u be a cat and have nine lives? plus, what is with 'the give me another chance' anyways? either u are in or u are out? basically i think when one person says ENUFF! that's it. hey, it doesn't matter what the situation or circumstance is, just do what is best for yerself. i really never thought about how many chances i would give because i guess i wouldn't think of it that way...sounds like u are weighing risk...i guess when u first start thinking of it that way...its done. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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