Break Up.. It stinks doesn't it?

[Southern_Girl28]

I just recently found out my uncle and his now ex fiancee have broken up. They had been together for four years and she cheated on him. It happen once before but he forgave her for it because she hadn't slept with him. This time she came out and told him she had been seeing a guy since last year, and had been sleeping with him. It made my uncle furious and i just found out recently and when i saw here i confronted her on it, because i wanted to hear her side of it. she claims shes in love which i don't believe is true because she just told my uncle he was a fling. I don't know if she was saying that so i wouldn't be angry but i was anything but calm. We basically got into a fight and i called her everything i could think of. This really hurt me because me and my uncle are so close he's 26 and i'm 15 he's always grown up as basically my brother. We've gone through alot together and him getting hurt like this hurt me bad. I came home and cried and i just couldn't believe she did that. My uncle supported her for 4 years and he was paying for her to go to college he bought her a 4,000$ ring and he wasn't even out of college yet when they got engage. Basically he gave her everything and she never did a thing for him but he was so in love so he stayed with her. Now it's finally over and i couldn't be more happier, my family hates the little b*tch now. I just despise her anyways i was hoping if anyone has gone through something similar a long time relationship and you get cheated on? I'm also curious to know reactions when they found out

[BetterKarma]

Southern_Girl28, it's really nice to see that you have such a great relationship with your uncle and I totally understand how you feel towards your uncle's ex.

 

This is a time to support your uncle because he will definitely need it. Don't spend any more energy on his ex because she's no longer worth your time. Spend more time with your uncle and do things to take his mind off of her. When this happened to me, I leaned on my family big time and I am so grateful for my brother, parents, and friends. Listen to him even though he will be repeating the same things over and over again. He needs to release his emotions to heal. Be patient and support him just like you have been doing. You're a great niece and most importantly a great friend to your uncle.