nrascott Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 ive been dating this girl for quite some time now. and she is very enexperienced, i am actualy the first guy she has ever done anything with. we get into some heavy make-out sessions, and it leads to me getting a hand job. i try to make a move down on her, she pretty much teases me, lets me get my hand down there, and then takes her hand and pulls mine out. i was just wondering waht i should do other than trying to make the move like that what is something i can do????? please help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJRon Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 Yeah.. you can stop sticking your hand down her pants. She doesn't want to seem to take it to that level. Enjoy that fact that she is a giver... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rosstheboss Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 yeah it sounds like she maybe wants to take it a little slower. you cant force someone to do stuff like that. be sensitive and give her time. good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRedQueen Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 Or... you can verbalize your frustration with her and tell her how much you would enjoy pleasuring her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
craign Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 Shes a part of the relationship like you.She decides her comfort like you.What were you expecting honestly.Be sensitive thats what i suggest.Dont try to decieve her into doing something she doesnt want to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRedQueen Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 Hold up, she has been willingly giving him hand jobs, so it would be up to par (as in pace-wise) if she were receiving some manual action herself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRedQueen Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 But maybe that's how she likes it, there are girls who love to give blow jobs while never liking to be eaten out. It's understandable I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJRon Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 I see Red's point. In my experience though, when this situation is occurring... they are just more interested in the newness, but not really interested in going any further. So, they are experimenting, but not wanting to open themselves up to the other person. I know, from my side, that when this happens and a woman does not want me to please *her*... then it is not going to go anywhere. I find it amusing that the guys all think one thing and the one woman here thinks something entirely different. It would be nice to have more female opinions here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheRedQueen Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 Hypothetically speaking, if I was this girl and I heard you tell me how much you sincerely wanted to pleasure me, I would most likely open up, in more ways than one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrascott Posted September 10, 2006 Author Share Posted September 10, 2006 very good advice on just like stopping. and for me in this relationship, the sexual things are just like add ons. i could definitly live without them. i love this girl to death, so its not that important to me. but the only reason i post this is becuase if she is gonna pleasure me, i would like to return the favor in a way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NJRon Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 Well... as Red says... tell her that you would get pleasure from pleasing her... you may be surprised at the reaction. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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