effects of handjobs?

[nrascott]

hey everyone, im dating an enexperienced girl, and she has been giving me handjobs. the only thing about it, is she is very very rough. and my penis is taking a toll. i was just wondering if anyone else has had a problem with like irritated skin on the penis as a result of a handjob, and what should i do about it? any advice for me to help get rid of the irratation?

[Q10]

KY try lots of lubricants!

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

Get her to slow down!

 

Tell her you like it, but it's not worth the pain afterwards/risk of mild infection, and she should go easier.

 

try some lubriaction as well to reduce friction.

[Honey Pumpkin]

Show her what you like to have done - nothing like learning from the person who knows best how to handle your penis... ;-)

[nrascott]

do you have any ideas on how i can get rid of the irritation, such as lotion or anything, girls usually know how to get rid of crazy things with like lotions and what not

[LostInMyThoughts]

Give you're penis a rest and don't have sex, get a handjob or masturbate. It's one of the few organs that heals pretty quickly when left alone.

 

After a few days of "rest" it should heal up.

 

And when she's giving you a hand, use some lubricant.

[Bethany]

She's probably been told men like a firm grip etc and is taking it a little too literally.

 

Put our hand over hers as she is doing it and control it yourself. You'll not only be doing yourself a favour but her too. All women deep down want to please their man, even if it is a little uncomfortable being shown at first, its well worth it in the long run.

 

I do agree with taking a few days out for it to recover.

[Luke Skywalker]

I just stumbled on this thread. I've been masturbating hard a week ago about sexual fantasies about having hand-jobs with inexperienced hot virgin girls and like went three times on the concept alone and it was one of the hottest masturbations I've had. I've fantasied about cashiers working at a store or getting some other friends to give me a hand-job. It feels so good when I'm masturbating about girls giving me handjobs that I got stunned when I saw this thread.

 

On this reality check it seems like this could also be a negative experience. I think a girl should handle it with tender loving care and only the right girl can do that in my opinion.

[BornToResist]

Well, she could be the right girl if you'd show her.

 

I agree that you should show her how it's done. We women obviously don't have the same parts so it's only natural that we don't know how to do it right off the bat. It's not an insult at all, every guy is different and a little instruction goes a long way.

 

Good luck.

[nate250]

u gotta train her man... its her first time. i had to train my girl. tell her to spit on it. haha or... ya know

[TheRedQueen]

VERY tired biceps.

[TheRedQueen]

Hand jobs are strange, and I am not a huge fan of them because I feel so lacking in my efficacy at making the guy orgasm compared to his own right hand, (or left).

[FoxLocke]

Use a little lubricant and tell her to slow down! Just thinking about that makes me cringe...lol. Handjobs are great just be careful about it.

[sparkle1]

Have to agree, you need to show her. Stands for everything, best man i ever dated was the guy who told me how to give Bjobs and Hjob, it also comes down to confidence. She'll probably know something isn't working. If you don't tell her now - god help you when it comes to the Bjob- TEETH! lol. Seriously, she may be a little disheartened, but if you do it in the right way, she'll get the hint, and in the end she too will feel confident recipricating.

 

As for lotions and potions - stay away from them!! Just rest it, it'll heal all by itself.