Raindrops725 Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 I broke up with my bf of 2 yrs 4 months ago we've stayed friends throughout and over the last two months we've got closer and now say we're only going to be friends for a while longer while we're trying to sort things out. He says he loves me and can't stand to be apart from me and that there's no one else but lately ive found out he's been talking to loads of other girls over the internet and now i feel like i can't trust him anymore, i love him more than anything but now i dont know what to do shall i tell him how i feel? should i not get back with him? i feel stupid for feeling this way since we're not together but i just can't help it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emma34 Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 I was sort of the same situation about a year ago. I asked my friend and she told me 'give it a month, see how you feel then...'- thats the best advice anyone has ever given me. He moved on within about a week. On the other hand, if you love this guy, and he loves you, and everythings beautiful, why did you break up in the first place?? This could entirely depend on that - what has changed? Take a look at things, give it time...and stay friends with him if you want - but be rational. You guys aren't together anymore so theres nothing wrong with him talking to other girls...you need to find out where this jealousy is coming from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raindrops725 Posted September 9, 2006 Author Share Posted September 9, 2006 We broke up because we seemed to be arguing a lot more than usual and we were drifting apart so we decided to take some time out to sort things out and then come back together rather than stay together now and risk ruining things completely. Ive always been a jealous person but its since we took this time out and we arent as close as we were that im scared hes going to find someone new. He says theres no one for him but me but i just can't seem to get this out of my head! We're going to stay friends whatever happens cos we cud never have no contact! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 Who instated the break-up and why? But emma34 is right. So long as you are broken-up he can talk to whomever he wants without being untrustworthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beck24 Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 Yeah I've been trying to talk to a lot of girls since I've been out of a relationship. Not because I want to hook up with them but because girls are good to talk to about relationship stuff . But really, you don't have any say on who he's talking to. I don't think bringing it up is going to make things any better either. I "made" my ex tell me who she had casually kissed while hanging out at bars. It was only 3 guys, 1 was a good friend and nothing would every happen between them, and another was gay lol. I felt really stupid for asking and making such a big deal about it. It's not healthy to worry about this. You can't control it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Raindrops725 Posted September 9, 2006 Author Share Posted September 9, 2006 Thanks i know i have no say on who he talks to, i guess its just my insecurities getting to me! Im not going to talk to him about it ive just got to focus on my own life now and i believe if things between us are meant 2 b they will be! Either way I know ive got a good friend in him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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