kevin9393 Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 i have this problem at school. theres this new kid who just moved here at the beging of the school year. his names alex and on the first day of school my g/f decides to be his friend. now i dont mind because she has lots of guy friends, and i trust her not to do anything.but right away this kid thinks shes got a crush on him. the next week my g/f asks me if alex can sit by us. i replied" i dont care".boy was i in for a treat. i sit down for lunch next to my g/f and alex says " who the hell is this kid" and i replie" I...I am alyssa's boy friend" the next few days i kept my eye on this kid.then just the other day at lunch, he puts his arm around her and starts toching her everywere. i was so pissed off that i stood up and went to him and said " hey man, im right here and im not likeing what your doing". but any way, she my girlfriend and hes got a HUGE crush on here and i dont know what to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostInMyThoughts Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 Talk to your girlfriend. She's the one who has to set limits. If she doesn't, then not much you can do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yvette84 Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 what was the point in mentioning that he's mexican? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MythicDawn Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 I myself am possesive, not overly but like you... I dont like it when other guys are all over my girl. LostInMyThoughts is right, it is up to her to set limits and you need to talk to her. Explain to her how much it is bothering you. It clearly sounds like this new kid is not very respectful... I would be outraged, just reading that makes me angry. You're totally right to feel the way you do, make sure you talk to her... If she doesnt do anything about it, then find someone better to be with - thats rediculous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maasikus Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 yup...looks like he is getting too comfortable with ur girl...talk to her, don't accuse/confront...just tell her that it makes u uncomfortable to see him touch her all over...and see what she says... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin9393 Posted September 9, 2006 Author Share Posted September 9, 2006 I talked to her and she said that i need to back off this whole ordeal, that shes going to take care of it and that i dont need to worry. ive been going out with her for almost a year now and i really trust her,but i got a phone call last night (i live in a small town, everyone knows everyone) and alex is challenging me to a fight on monday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin9393 Posted September 9, 2006 Author Share Posted September 9, 2006 there yvette im sorry bout that,im just a little mad i guss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin9393 Posted September 9, 2006 Author Share Posted September 9, 2006 i really like her and i dont want to break up with her.this is the first real problem we have had all year. now with this kid thinkin hes better and all, i just need to know if i should talk to him or fight him like he wants to. plz post reply's i really need help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RelaxByWater84 Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 Wow this sounds like the second season of Gilmore Girls. Well just think you have your girl-friend, he doesn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin9393 Posted September 9, 2006 Author Share Posted September 9, 2006 lol. ya your right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LostInMyThoughts Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 I talked to her and she said that i need to back off this whole ordeal, that shes going to take care of it and that i dont need to worry. ive been going out with her for almost a year now and i really trust her,but i got a phone call last night (i live in a small town, everyone knows everyone) and alex is challenging me to a fight on monday. If she said she'll take care of it, let her take care of it. As for the fighting thing, trust me, it ain't worth it. If you *really* wants to fight, ask the school's Gym Teacher or the local YMCA if they have boxing equipment. Challenge him to a boxing match. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin9393 Posted September 11, 2006 Author Share Posted September 11, 2006 all right but your to late. he fought me and i punched him in the nose and he started crying. then he left. and my g/f did take care of it. i knew i could trust her.thank you for what help you did give me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BornToResist Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 Hahaha that's awesome. I bet that felt good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevin9393 Posted September 13, 2006 Author Share Posted September 13, 2006 it was really quick. he said he was gona fight, not run away Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jayar Posted September 14, 2006 Share Posted September 14, 2006 Oh my.... Okay so your GF obviously likes that you're bothered by this guy, and probably likes that he's bothered by you. She'll probably lead him on enough that this situation won't get better. Some girls are like that. You don't need that. And don't fight him. Are you really that pathetic? Don't talk to him, and don't do anything but try to be the best boyfriend you can be. Honestly, if she leaves you for him she wasn't yours to begin with. HE cannot STEAL your girlfriend if she doesn't WANT to be stolen. Remember that, and if something happens, your anger should be with HER not the guy! And don't fight her either. Just go to class and be a good boy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabican Posted September 18, 2006 Share Posted September 18, 2006 Id talk to your girl, tell her how you feel about the situation and how innapropriate it is. The guy is past the 'friend' line. Once he starts initiating physical/ emotional stuff like this she really needs to set him straight. If she wont, maybe its time to find a girl who is willing to set some limits on her guy friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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