cinderelly65 Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 what the hell am i doing wrong ? i have been dumped by two different guys in the past two month. one guy i went out with for a month the last day i saw him he said he had alot of feelings for me and i never saw him again. the other guy i started dating a week ago he kept telling me how beatiful i was and now he won't have nothing to do with me either. so why do guys say this stuff when they don't mean it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sumguy Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 Just bad luck, the only thing that means is that you're getting the wrong guys... Don't feel bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Entomon Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 You know, don't torture yourself trying to understand men and the mixed messages they're sending. Through past experiences, I've come to learn and accept that perhaps some (careful not to generalize here) men just don't know what they want much less know what they need. If we settled our minds in believing that they are just truly stupid then we are less prone to extremes - we wouldn't be so angry with them and/or blame ourselves for their erratic behaviors. (I'm not to say that men can't subscribe to the same belief about women) what the hell am i doing wrong ? i have been dumped by two different guys in the past two month. one guy i went out with for a month the last day i saw him he said he had alot of feelings for me and i never saw him again. the other guy i started dating a week ago he kept telling me how beatiful i was and now he won't have nothing to do with me either. so why do guys say this stuff when they don't mean it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DBL Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 I run into similar problems like this too. I have a lot of things going for me look wise, humor wise, and can hold a serious conversation, but there is something about me that sends off some bad vibes or something. I just figure some people have charisma..and I have the reverse. Why don't you just ask them? Then you can correct what you need to correct. Maybe you talk to much, maybe you have an oder, maybe they don't feel secure with you. Like if I met a girl that dated a lot, I would ditch her after I got what I wanted. I know security issues would arise and stuff. So I bail before I get further involved. DBL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nilli Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 what the hell am i doing wrong ? i have been dumped by two different guys in the past two month. one guy i went out with for a month the last day i saw him he said he had alot of feelings for me and i never saw him again. the other guy i started dating a week ago he kept telling me how beatiful i was and now he won't have nothing to do with me either. so why do guys say this stuff when they don't mean it? Awww...maybe it's nothing at all to do with you. I keep reading on here about guys who miss their exes and start dating again in an attempt to move on, only to go back to their exes. Just one possibility. Maybe you're meeting people who just aren't really available yet. Keep trying. Frogs, princes etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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