kittenmoomoo Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 Hey everyone, so it's been about a month and a half since I've seen and touched him, nearly a month since I found out he had been with someone else and 24 days since I've made NC. Last night, at about 3 am, I kept getting these private number prank calls. I think it was from a pay phone because everytime I answered, it just cut out. Some calls I answered and some I just hung up on. In the end I had 11 calls. I also got a text message that was sent from a pay phone and it said "I miss you, I'm working hard, love you lots"[/i] I can't confirm 100 % that it's him, but 99 % sure it is. I'm so confused and emotional now. I still love him so much, but I can't forgive his betrayal. Plus the effort he is making is so weak anyway. Where does he get the right to contact me like that all of a sudden and to say he misses me and loves me?! It's not fair, why couldn't he have worked hard when we were together. I don't know what's going on in my head. I just needed to vent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 He doesnt have the right.You need to put down your fone. "a guy is never worth your tears and the one that is wont make you cry" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittenmoomoo Posted September 2, 2006 Author Share Posted September 2, 2006 "a guy is never worth your tears and the one that is wont make you cry" Thanks Liza. But what do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PRSOV Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 Hey there, First off you still don't know if it was him... Do you have any other guys interested in you at the moment? It could be someone playing a prank, you can't point the finger just yet! Stay in NC mode nonetheless, you are doing great Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittenmoomoo Posted September 2, 2006 Author Share Posted September 2, 2006 Thanks PRSOV. Nope, no other guys interested who have my number. I know, I'm thinking about it too much. I was doing fine before this. Grrr. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobo85 Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 I agree with you that it does sound like your ex bf. And you know what...its too little too late anyways. If wanted to contact you that bad he would have drove to your house and knocked on your door. I do not deny your feelings towards your ex-bf but it sounded like he did something terrible to you. I do not believe people should get back together under any circumstances unless its one of these two: a) both started dating at a young age and both had to experience life and possibly other lovers in order to really commit to the each other b) one person was relocated because of family,job or education and after awhile, they tried to work things out. If there was any sort of disrespect or cheating...then i'm sorry no second chances because deep down in your heart you know you can never truly forgive them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittenmoomoo Posted September 2, 2006 Author Share Posted September 2, 2006 Bobo, thank you! You are so right, I really needed to hear everything you just said. We kinda fit category A, nah, I know, I'm making excuses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobo85 Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 Bobo, thank you! You are so right, I really needed to hear everything you just said. We kinda fit category A, nah, I know, I'm making excuses. glad i can help good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blender Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 Hang in there, do NOT contact him, let this go, if it was him, and he did send the text, LET HIM LIVE WITH IT. Do NOTHING. Feel your sadness, cry, weep, be upset and come here to vent as you said, stay strong, do NOT contact him.... like you said, his attempt was "lame" if indeed was him.. so let it go.. at least feel some strength in the fact that you have had the self respect to not contact him for 24 days and he's probably "thinking about you" but that is NOT enough for a great girl like you, IF A MAN IS SERIOUS ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR YOU, he has to MAKE A DECENT AND RESPECTFUL effort to win you back, anything LESS, is NOTHING.... hang in there, keep venting here...YOU are doing great! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SkylinesTurnstiles Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Let him feel how you did.Let him have some pain you dont need him.future not past.He doesnt deserve you.Your going well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittenmoomoo Posted September 3, 2006 Author Share Posted September 3, 2006 IF A MAN IS SERIOUS ABOUT HIS FEELINGS FOR YOU, he has to MAKE A DECENT AND RESPECTFUL effort to win you back, anything LESS, is NOTHING Thanks Blender & Liza. You guys are great! I won't contact him. Blender, you are so right. 1 text and I'm going all weak in the knees again. Meh. Flowers hand delivered to my house and then MAYBE I'll think about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blender Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Kitten, good for you, keep up this attitude, do NOT respond, or contact him in anyway, you are on your way to "healing" and believe me, he will contact you again.. you'll see.. and you will have by then probably had enough time to gain even more perspective on what YOU really want in a man.... relax, hang in there, and know that unless he "makes an authentic, mature effort" then you will not take him seriously.... no contact... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittenmoomoo Posted September 3, 2006 Author Share Posted September 3, 2006 Thank you for the encouragement Blender! You really think he'lll contact me again? I wish I didn't care if he did. Would a guy be totally scared off if he had numerous people threatening him? My friend and my sister sent him messages to watch his back after they found out about what he did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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