danman4968 Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 When she left me she told me that she would decide what she wants, and if she wanted me back or anything she would be too prideful to say so because thats just how she is. So should i ask her? Should i break NC for this, because here i am holding onto something and cant let go until i know for sure. Link to comment
DN Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 In a word - no. If she is too full of pride to admit she wants you back she's not a good prospect for a relationship anyway. Link to comment
danman4968 Posted August 24, 2006 Author Share Posted August 24, 2006 Well its only because she promised me she wouldnt break no contact with me, she is prideful so i highly doubt if she wanted me back she would contact me... Link to comment
friscodj Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 You don't need to ask her because she is already giving you her answer. Every minute of everyday that goes by that she doesn't feel more strongly for a relationship with you than she does her pride in not contacting you is another negative answer. So how many more times must you hear the word "no" in this way before you decide for yourself that she is not for you? Link to comment
danman4968 Posted August 24, 2006 Author Share Posted August 24, 2006 i dont know...good question...i dont know how to give up hope though. Link to comment
DN Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 i dont know...good question...i dont know how to give up hope though. By allowing your emotions to be governed by your rational side that tells you the truth about what is happening. Link to comment
danman4968 Posted August 24, 2006 Author Share Posted August 24, 2006 im really not trying to be a pain but, i really do think that she will come back, once her and her new guy dont work out, or shes gotten what she needed to get out since it seemed she felt she was held back and couldnt do the things she wanted. as much as i want to think she isnt going to come back...i cant. Link to comment
DN Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 Then I fear you are going to be sad and lonely for a long time. And even if she does come back to you I think you will still be sad and probably lonely as well. Link to comment
friscodj Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 i dont know how to give up hope though. Something that has worked for me is to overanalyze, beat myself up, completely exhaust myself thinking about the situation. Then the hope goes away with your energy...but eventually your energy comes back sans the hope... Link to comment
tylercdurden2004 Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 Something that has worked for me is to overanalyze, beat myself up, completely exhaust myself thinking about the situation. Then the hope goes away with your energy...but eventually your energy comes back sans the hope... Good point. But it takes strength to know you will be ok on your own or without her. Link to comment
friscodj Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 Good point. But it takes strength to know you will be ok on your own or without her. If you completely exhaust yourself like this, you won't care, it will happen on it's own...that's I've found... Link to comment
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