Yet another secret I'm planning to keep it to myself!!!!!

[yeawutever]

Well I''ll definitely tell my friend (she knows the guy too, noy much to do) and few people, but not my parents, na, don't feel like getting on my personal info.

The secret is I'm now once again exclusive with that guy (let's call him A), I been seeing for like a month now. He's my second b/f (I dump the first one way back on May 2 on the 7th day).

 

 

Anyways hope I can keep up with the secret this time. Mom just knows I had one b/f and that I'm single again (not anymore) and dad has no idea of anything. He thinsk I always been single and never in a relation.

 

 

I'm just gonna make them think he's just a friend. He did come to my house on couple on occasions but only when mom's there and dad's working (lol, yea he's so jealous about letting a guy in the house, it's not like I'm gonna mess around, I got sense and know what I'm doing).

 

 

 

 

[xprincessbugx]

You're 19 years old and you're not allowed to have a boyfriend?

[PittItaliano]

Why aren't you allowed to date when you are 19 already? I'm confused

[Meow18]

Why are you wanting to keep this a secret? It's going to be hard keeping it from your parents for long. They will get suspicious after awhile.

 

But I hope you are happy with this guy and congrats!

[yeawutever]

You're 19 years old and you're not allowed to have a boyfriend?

 

Off course I'm allow, mom wouldn't mind but dad gets kinda touchy. He's already told him how it's not easy and that it's gonna be hard studying, working, and been in a relation at once and that right now I should be focusing on studying and getting a degree.

 

 

[Meow18]

Well, you can prove them wrong. Do well with work and school and have a boyfriend.

 

How about just talk to your mom at least? i've always found it's better to not hide anything from your parents because they will find out..

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

Sometimes, significant others are GOOD for your education. In my most depression-ridden days, it's my boyfriend who can make the difference between me going to college or not (he encourages me, to clarify).

[xprincessbugx]

I think you should prove to them that you can handle it all. You're old enough to decide whether or not you need a relationship or not.

[yeawutever]

Yea, I can handle it all at once. Just cuz I'm taken doens't mean I'll careless about my work or classes, lol, I''ll still have them on my top prorities list. And yea I been thinking about this, I'll tell mom sometime later, not now, but will eventually.

[Momene]

I think your dad has a point but your life needs balance. I think if you have one of those all-consuming relationships where you're joined at the hip, it won't work. I think you need a relationship where there isn't pressure to see each other every hour or even every day.

 

I understand the reasons why people work and study at the same time but I was lucky/lazy enough that I never did it and only worked during uni vacations. I think where you could lose out is that if you work, study and have a boyfriend, you can forget about an y other interests or friends.

[yeawutever]

Ok so my mom knows it, as it was not really a surprise to her, she told me she already had figured it out. She's fine with it, thus it's no big deal, she lets him in while dad works.

Dad on the other hand would freak out if he were to know he was in my house yesterday and in my room (it's not like I'm gonna mess around, nope). He off course doesn't know it, me and mom are keeping it a secret. However, he's starting to suspect a little and I'm trying not to make it obvious.

[Momene]

Well my wife caught my daughter and I keeping secrets from her and there was hell to pay ...

 

Just be careful!