Clingy! Help

[laura-anne_ox]

Goddd i need help so badly. been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now and suddenly hes got so clingy

its unbelievable im not allowed to be alone for 5 mins be4 he calls me or txts me asking how i am or where i am etc etc i really wana tell him to lay off but i dont wana upset him, coz after all it makes a change to find a clingy bf most of the time its the girl whos clingy, please help asap its driving me mad!! xxxx

[in_the_mirror]

really just let him know that he is overwhelming you a bit with all the attention. not that you don't want it but you both need your own time and space to just chill. tell him casually you don't need to make a big deal out of it an tell him that you liked it before when he when you guys were more laid back while together. talking is always the best, sometimes you can't worry about others feelings when it comes to your own well being.

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

I do not enjoy being the bearer of bad news, but in my past relationships when I've cheated on someone, the guilt has backfired on me and I've become very paranoid and clingy towards MY partner...be careful that he's been faithful.

 

I hope he has and there's another reason for it, but unfortunately cheating is a very common one.

[Momene]

It's called balance. Has he stopped seeing friends, etc? If so, encourage him to get in touch again.

[valiantv]

OTOH, could he suspect you have cheated?