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My g/f and i were going out for six months, we had been having our share of arguments but we were working things out and trying to solve our differences. One day while we were still going out she said she had met up with an old friend from school and that she wanted to get to know him better as a friend, i said that was ok as long as nothing interfered with our relationship. A couple days later after she told me that she was going out with him and at that time we were still together. The next day she dumps me for the guy from school I didn't know what to say, i was heartbroken. I tried to talk to her and fix things but nothing worked. I love her with all my heart and i cant get over it, i love her sooo much!!! We are friends and we hang out and all but she says she loves me and misses me and all of that. All i want is to be back with her, but she hurt me by going out with this guy. I dont know what to do anymore, i really need some help. I love her more than anything in the world and all i want is to have her back but there is this guy standing in my way. What can i do???????

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Hey there~

I'm sorry what happened w/ u and ur g/f. I know exactally how you feal! here's my story, the same thing sorta happened to me... and then I have some advice for you, maybe you could help me w/ mine too: My b/f and I had been going out for almost 5 months. I loved him so much! and he loved me too! We hung out every weekend together, talked every night on the phone, everyone thought we were perfect w/ eachother. But then one weekend, the day before he broke up w/ me, my b/f, me, and 4 of my frnds, and 2 of his frnds all went to a movie. Afterwards we all went to my frnds house that was w/ us, and we hung out there, and me and b/f had a lot of fun together. But i had to leave earlier than some of them to go to my frnds party. I found out the next day, that my b/f had kissed one of my best frnds that night, when they were playing spin the bottle. I already knew, as well as everyone else at my school knew that she liked him, but he told me to not worry about it, because he liked me and not her, but apparently he did end up liking her, while he was going out w/ me! I was so mad at him and my best friend. What kind of frnd does that to their frnd. Or what kind of b/f does that? We broke up that day on the phone. I was so sad, i was at one of my other best frnd's house when i found out that he had kissed someone else. I couldn't believe we had broken up, once i got off the phone w/ him. That was our second we had gotten back together, and it ended again. I didn't know how it could just end like that when i thought things were just perfect. I was mad at my frnd for doing this to me, and i was of course mad at my b/f. The three of us have almost all of the same classes, all together, so it was really weird the first 2 weeks since they both liked eachother. They had both appoligized several times to me for doing it, but that didn't change anything when i knew that they both liked eachother now. I wanted to be back w/ him so badly, even tho he had done that to me, when u like someone that much it's really hard to get ova them that fast. But the next week i found out that he didn't like her anymore. Her and I had started to become frnds again. But him and I barely ever talk in school anymore. I wish that we could tho, cause we were really good frnds before we went out, and i wish we could still be at least that. I want to still be w/ him again, but everyone is saying that hes a jerk for doing that to me, and to get over him, but it's been really hard, cause we had all our good times and everything. I just wish i knew if he still liked me, that way. i don't know what to do? But after going through all of this in the past few weeks, i do have some advice to pass on to you: You obviously like this girl a lot! n/m u love her. And aparnetly she is intrested in this other guy. I think you need to get her back for sure tho! don't let this other guy change ur mind on that. I think it sounds like she still likes you too. You need to tell her how you feel... tell her that you still love her, and miss her a lot and exactally how else you feel. Tell her you deserve another chance, and that you two should try going out again, and see if it works out better. Don't let her stay w/ this other guy. I wish i could get my old b/f back, but i don't think that will ever happen for me. Good luck!

~Dancinqueen89

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ARIGHT FOR THE FIRST POST.YOU NEED TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER,BECAUSE SHE WANT TO BE FIRENDS(1-2 YEARS) WITH YOU BEFORE GETTING INTO BOYFRIENDS RELATIONSHIP.IF THAT DOESN'T WORK THEN MAYBE SHE DOESN'T HAVE ANY FEELING FOR YOU,BUT MAYBE I'M WRONG.JUST GO OUT AND GO FIND A DIFFRENT BOYFRIENDS.

 

WHEN A PERSON SEE AN ATTRACTIVE PERSON THEN IT HARD FOR THE OTHER PERSON TO LOVE THAT PERSON WHO ALREADY IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE.YOU HAVE TO HAVE A GREAT CHEMISSTRY BETWEEN EACH OTHER IN ORDER TO KNOW YOU IN LOVE.

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