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Just Not Ready


Roxari
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So it has been a little over 3 months since my ex and I ended our relationship. I knew that it would be quite some time before I got back out into the dating world. 3 months is nothing. However, I am a very big social bug. I go out A LOT. I have tons of friends and not a night that I am out goes by that someone does not ask me out. I don't even think twice before I say no. I know that I don't want a relationship right now and I am not even entertained by the idea of getting to know someone.

 

A dear friend that I have known for years just moved back here. We at one time shared a conversation about being attracted to each other and wanting to pursue it further and we revisited that conversation again. Even with him, I just couldn't find it in me to make the attempt. A he is by all means a great guy. Someone that I get along with and share not only the same interests but thoughts for the future. I just don't have the ability to jump back in.

 

Dating sucks. Not dating sucks more.

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Who broke up with who & why? State the reasons why you are not ready for dating or relationships? I am just trying to better understand where a friend of mine is coming from. My friend and I had feelings for each other (I still do have feelings). Now all of a sudden I am told that we will never happen as a couple,ect. I am hurt & confused. Not sure what to do. See I fell in love with this person.

So please explain to me your situation and how you are feeling. Do you still like your friend?

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He broke up with me. He was lying and cheating.

 

Anyway. I am just not ready to give 100% to a relationship right now. It's not fair to myself or the other person involved.

 

As for the friend. I care about him a great deal, but he just came out of something as well and neither of us should be involved with anyone.

 

And I agree, it is better to be alone that with the wrong person.

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