Roxari Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 So it has been a little over 3 months since my ex and I ended our relationship. I knew that it would be quite some time before I got back out into the dating world. 3 months is nothing. However, I am a very big social bug. I go out A LOT. I have tons of friends and not a night that I am out goes by that someone does not ask me out. I don't even think twice before I say no. I know that I don't want a relationship right now and I am not even entertained by the idea of getting to know someone. A dear friend that I have known for years just moved back here. We at one time shared a conversation about being attracted to each other and wanting to pursue it further and we revisited that conversation again. Even with him, I just couldn't find it in me to make the attempt. A he is by all means a great guy. Someone that I get along with and share not only the same interests but thoughts for the future. I just don't have the ability to jump back in. Dating sucks. Not dating sucks more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anthony M Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Dating sucks. Not dating sucks more. It's better to be alone than with the wrong person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lozic21 Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 haha, I'm sure there are TONS of people who would like to have guys asking them out every night though...so at least you have that going for you when you finally do become ready. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatchamacallit Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 I'm right there with you Roxari! Do you ever feel you're "weird" for feeling that way? I do. But, the second post is so true. Better to be alone than with the wrong person! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avoj Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Who broke up with who & why? State the reasons why you are not ready for dating or relationships? I am just trying to better understand where a friend of mine is coming from. My friend and I had feelings for each other (I still do have feelings). Now all of a sudden I am told that we will never happen as a couple,ect. I am hurt & confused. Not sure what to do. See I fell in love with this person. So please explain to me your situation and how you are feeling. Do you still like your friend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roxari Posted August 21, 2006 Author Share Posted August 21, 2006 He broke up with me. He was lying and cheating. Anyway. I am just not ready to give 100% to a relationship right now. It's not fair to myself or the other person involved. As for the friend. I care about him a great deal, but he just came out of something as well and neither of us should be involved with anyone. And I agree, it is better to be alone that with the wrong person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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