Having sex

[thisguy10]

Ok guys, im 18 and ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 7 months, ive been thinking of making love with her but i dont know how to open up or tell her, i need help!

[melrich]

Yeah it can be an awkward subject. I think I would approach it by just starting a general talk about sex rather than directly saying "I want to make love to you" (although that approach may work to in the right environment).

 

Find out what her general thoughts are then start to work around to the situation between the two of you.

[Tigris]

I agree you should talk to her about it.

[Teddy-Bear]

I agree with jilligirl that the saying is corny... And i want to start by saying congrats in saying "i want to make Love" and now saying i want to * * * * her or bang her. It tells me you have respect for her and actually do care for her. As for getting there...maybe make sure you 2 can be alone for the evening...make sure your both comfortable and when your in the foreplay or which ever point, you could whisper into her ear something like i love you or i want to be one with you...not quite sure about those words but mention that you love her and you want to go to the next level and make love. and im sure she will be happy you used the words make love like i mentioned in the beginning

[7CardStud]

Just bring up a conversation, what do you think about _______? see what her reaction is based on the questions you give her. and give her honest answers back. if she gives u kind of a i'm not really sure and ask's you. Don't nec. tell her exactly what she wants to hear. If you want to make love then say "If I find someone special enough to give it to..."

 

It's all about just communicating with her.

[Tigris]

Please put some condoms in your pocket. We don't want to hear from you next time in a post saying, 'I think my girlfriend's pregnant' like so many other people seem to do these days.

 

Good luck and take care of both of you.