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I am 15 years old I have been a cutting for about 7 or 8 years the last 2 years i have been trying to stop but i feel like the more i try to stop the more i cut and i also have no one around me to back me up or help me through it, everyone is making me feel like cutting is a good thing when i know for myself that is not a good think like everyone around me says, i don't know what to do i need to stop cutting i have so many scars that i don't even remember why i have them and my mom and dad thinks that i have stopped but i have not and i have been cleaning house for like 3 days and i always get hurt when i clean house and when they ask me what happen i say i got hurt will cleaning house. i just cant stop cutting and lien to my parents, i need some ideas on how to stop but the bad thing is is i have a bad memory so i don't know what to do. i have been so depressed i have pretty much go anorexic and cutting is not a good thing but then cutting is not a good think anyways and my friends are all worried about me but non of my friends know that i cut i will not let them know if they do know they have not said anything about it please if u have any ideas let me know i want and need to stop cutting.

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After cutting for so long, you really understand it more than anyone.

You just asked for help, a good first step, but you need to see a doctor to get referred to a specialist. The reasons you cut can be dealt with before you scar yourself even more, or depend on it as a coping method in the future. Sure, your folks might be a pain, but you have a serious problem that many have quit.

 

kita's methods have helped some people stop on their own.

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Oh hun, I'm so sorry that you are having to endure this but you can overcome it.

 

There is no shame in asking for help and seeing your doctor would be a good start. I know I'm not much help but please see your doctor about this, good luck. PM me anytime if you would like to talk, I struggled with depression for 7 years, I know it's hard but you can overcome it, just like I did.

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Agree with Kita's ideas. For me, going for a run and expending all my energy worked really well.

 

I hope you have someone to talk to about what's been getting you down in your life; making you depressed and leading you to cutting and anorexia. It might be more worthwhile to try and fix the underlying problem (what's been troubling you in life) instead of one of it's effects (you cutting). Feel free to PM, email or chat to me on msn if you want more people to talk to

 

Hope you get things sorted out, but getting over an addiction to self injury can be very difficult, so hang in there!

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the thing is is that i dont have anyone to talk to and i really cant go to the doctor because my parents think that i have stoped and if i tell my dactor my parents will fine out the i have been lien to them for 2 and 1/2 mouths

 

If your parents don't know you went to the doctor, your doctor (as far as I'm aware, might be different laws where you live) has to keep things confidential - Unless what you're doing is life threatening I don't think he or she can tell your parents, but confirm this will someone else first, like I said I could be wrong (call up your doctor and ask if he or she can keep the session private from your parents).

 

And if you don't have anyone to talk to, there are plenty of people here From what I've read of her posts, Kita always has good advice on things, and might be able to relate to you. And like I said before talk to me too if you want.

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