stratguy620 Posted August 9, 2006 Share Posted August 9, 2006 So I'm staying with my family for the summer, and I've been hanging out with my younger sister's friends who are only a year or two younger than myself. The thing is, I started liking one of her friends early on in the summer. She drunkenly told me one night that she liked me, which obviously, I thought was great. However, I've always been horrible with girls when it comes to anything past being friends. I'm going home in a week, and although I've had several oppotunities to kiss her, I can't get the ****ing courage to just do it. I feel so stupid and mad at myself afterwards because this girl is absolutely gorgeous, and I know that I just passed up a perfect chance. I at least want to show her how I feel before I leave, but I don't know how to kick my own butt into gear. Anyone have any ideas? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AwdreeHpburn Posted August 9, 2006 Share Posted August 9, 2006 Stratguy - i don't know where to tell you to find the gumption, but you've just got to apply the Nike. Just Do It. Take the plunge. Take a risk. Take a chance. Just Do It. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cadence308 Posted August 9, 2006 Share Posted August 9, 2006 When it's just the two of you and you are sitting or standing close to each other just look into her eyes, be quiet, and then ask her if you can kiss her. She already told you that she likes you. A lot of girls wait for the guy to make the first move. If you don't do it then you will be forever mad at yourself for it. I'm sure she'll love it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
freefallin Posted August 9, 2006 Share Posted August 9, 2006 Sit close to her and gaze into her eyes. Then while she is talking start starring at her lips. Move your face closer and closer. Then kiss her very gently on the lips without your tongue and pull back. Then move in again and land a harder but still gentle kiss on her lips. See how she reacts. Freefallin Good Luck!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisch Posted August 9, 2006 Share Posted August 9, 2006 You want to kiss her but you are leaving? Dont go breaking any hearts now, we are strictly against that here at Enotalone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eriko Posted August 9, 2006 Share Posted August 9, 2006 Why not try whipping it out and seeing how she reacts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisch Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 LOL!! eriko... * * *? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cid Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 Just go for it. You have nothing to lose. If it goes bad you probly wont see her agen, but if it goes good you can make plans to see her and we will see what happens next. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valiantv Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 You could always kind of make a joke or say something or cajole her into saying something that calls for you to kiss her on the cheek, "accidentally" catching some of her lips... And depending on how she reacts (which should be well if she said she liked you), try moving to the lips... I know this is totally useless information but you probably should have kissed her when she said she liked you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 You may really just want to let it go. I mean, how are you REALLY going to feel if you share a kiss, things really start to get stirred up inside, then you have to say goodbye? There will certainly be other women, no doubt about that. Have a serious think about what the possibilities are of the two of you being together should you want to be. If it can happen (not sure how close you two are in distance) then consider it. If there's no chance, then let it drop. Other than kissing you could give her something. Or try the tact of telling her that she's going to get a goodbye kiss when you leave .. and then depending on her reaction it may become obvious she'd rather have the kiss sooner than later ... or not at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now