How to know if he wants a replacement?

[cheerfuldaisy]

Hi,

 

Right now I am dating a guy and he always tell me he is eager to have a girl friend and he always tells me how pretty his ex-gf is and how they spent time together before they broke up one year ago. My question is how do you tell if a guy really loves you or just eager for replacement? I am confused.

[fishrrshortae]

Ummm... you're dating a guy that tells you about how pretty his ex gf is and how they spent time together .. ?? Why?!

 

I am confused too.

[Mythical_Suicide]

If my bf was always talkin to me about how pretty his ex is, and bla bla bla i'd tell him to hit the road. Because it really seems like he is still in love with his ex and maybe is just using you as a replacement or is possibly trying to make his ex jealous by dating someone else and seeming happy.

[PRSOV]

He is not over her yet...

[annie24]

I agree with the others! it sounds like he is not over her yet.

 

and mythical... your son is so cute!

[Meow18]

I have to agree with the others here. He's not over her.

 

It's pretty inconsiderate of him to talk about his ex all the time. I mean, you are not stupid.. obviously he was attracted to her, obviously they spent lots of time together. He doesn't need to tell you this!

 

It's almost like he's trying to rub it in.. like trying to tell you that you aren't as good as she was or something.

 

It's just not fair of him. You deserve a guy who is into you and not his past girlfriends.

[lady00]

Yup, he's not over her. I'd say take a break from dating him...either so that he can have time to be single and get over his ex or so that he can go tell someone else how much he likes his ex. All in all, not a fun situation for you to be in. Get out early before you get too attached.

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

I wouldn't want to date a guy who told me how pretty his ex was. Or any other girl, for that matter.