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I really like this girl, and when we first met we kissed a few times and she seemed to be really into me. Then I let her know that I liked her and things kind of got weird because she had just broken up with her boyfriend and a few people who shouldn't have been got involved. So this got back to her and she called me and told me "I don't want a relationship and I don't want you to have in the back of your head the idea that we will end up in a relationship", then when I asked about feelings she said she did have feelings for me but just not anymore. I then backed off for 2 or 3 weeks and then I saw her again at a party and she was flirting with me a bit and at the end of the night after I left she told me friend that I was really looking good. Since then me and her have gone out a few times with other people just 3-4 of us. On sunday me and her went out by ourselves to get some food and her friend asked her if she could come she told her no. So it was just the two of us and we had a really good time... because she told me this at the end of the night. Now I didn't go for a kiss because I didn't know what her reaction would be but I would like to know is it possible that after all that she is getting feelings for me again even though she told me that she had feelings before but they just went away??

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Honestly, I would kinda of be confused, see how things go for the next weeks and gauge it from that. Always remember to not put yourself out there if you don't feel that strongly about it. Dont want you to get your hopes and have them crushed cause that's just horrible.

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I don't think this is confusing at all. She's not interested. She expressed this to you before. Nothing changed. She knows that you want her and if she wanted you then you two would be together. She is not getting with you so that's that.


I've been here once about 10 years ago when I was 16. I liked this girl and she rejected me. I didn't see her for about a month and then she told my cousin that she thought I looked hot when she saw me. So stupid me starts pursuing again only to be rejected again. Just because a girl flirts or thinks you look cute doesn't mean she had an epiphany and suddenly changed her mind. She's not interested.

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