I chased after him after ruining a chance for something

[stacy2211]

I made a lot of mistakes... I had way too high expectations when I was dating someone for just about two months and pretty much runied it by communicating those expectations is a criticial manner and saying it was not working out. (In hindsight, I was really attracted to him and just expected too much). I tried to fix it several times and just annoyed him even further. I showed up a few times at a bar we both frequent and his response was to put his arm around some other girl who was clearly a big downgrade from me (he made it obvious he talked to her about me in a negative light as she kept looking back at me with a smile) I left right away (I was very hurt) and then two weeks ago, I ran into him again. He looked really guilty and looked at me like he was embarrassed. I pretty much ignored him when he caught my eye and turned my back away from him. He also looked at me nervously like I was going to talk bad about him with my friends but I took the high road and just acted like he wasnt there. (I also wanted him to know that him putting his arm around another woman wouldn't disuade me from going out to the same place).

 

For the last week though, I have decided to no longer go to the same bars we both frequented and to never call him again. I have also started going on other dates.

This is of course to help me get over him but I also wanted to know if there is ANY chance this guy might miss me and have second thoughts about us. I really screwed up with him big time and want another chance if it is possible.

[CluelessGuy321]

leave him alone >: (

[Luck of the Irish]

For the last week though, I have decided to no longer go to the same bars we both frequented and to never call him again. I have also started going on other dates.

 

I think you are doing the best thing for yourself. You are not playing mindgames with him and sinking to his level.

 

I really screwed up with him big time and want another chance if it is possible.

 

There is probably a small chance, but do you want to put your self through that? This will always hang over your head. You will fight, and he will say "Remember when you....." and you will retaliate with "Well atleast I didn't......". Then you will be in worse shape than you are now.