Ouch.

[venus777]

OUCH.

 

I don't get it. I don't get it at all. You can look at my posts to get an idea of what happened. But my feelings are so hurt.

 

I spent about 4 hours drawing a beautiful picture of him yesterday and posted it on his myspace and he hasn't written me about it or anything. I mean, it's beautiful.

 

I don't know if it freaked him out or what, but it really hurts me a great deal that he is ignoring me. I called him 3 times this morning, first just super casual and then more serious, the last one saying I didn't understand why he wouldn't write me back or call me after I did something like that for him and that it really hurt.

 

I haven't heard anything and I'm feeling immobilized, unable to get out of bed. I hardly ever do anything so special for someone. I haven't eaten anything today or gone outside and I feel horrible.

 

Not only that, but I also lost another very special friend due to drama and my heart is totally broken.

[Lady Bugg]

Venus....not to be mean but you sound a bit obsessed. I'm guessing this may have freaked him out a bit. Not being able to get out of bed because of a persons reactions to you is a SERIOUS issue.

[robowarrior]

Show you have a life of your own to live, you have given the power of your life where it doesn't belong, namely in his hands, you need to take back the power of your life where it belongs namely in your hands. You are obsessed and blindly in love with him, which is normal for someone who is head over heels with a guy, but guys aren't that into phonecalls, and only giving him 1 lousy day to reply, you don't even know if he was on the internet , maby he was basketballing or doing some sport or event, gosh look your picture is without doubt very very beautifull, but he isn't obliged to respond to it, im sure he looked at it and thought it was very beautifull, but he doesn't know your that desperate for an answer. Chill the flip out and control yourself, your head is up in space and we need to get you back with your feet on earth. You are only hurting yourself so im going to say it.

 

Never go into a relationship expecting things to work out just because it concerns 'your case' a guy can pack his bags and leave any day. Hope for the best and prepare for the worst, if you had a guy hanging around your leg would you think that would be nice? No you would think he's too clingy, so don't be too clingy you'll only chase him away.

[SilverManic]

Back off a little. One phone call is enough. Let him come to you now. He may not have looked at myspace yet. Don't take everything to heart.

~S.

[venus777]

well i wasn't sad just about him, it just is a pile of crap everything i've been through and we went through lots of drama this last week.

 

to top it all off, i got a call from a friend today saying that her roommates say he is a major player. he says he isn't and doesn't know where those ideas come from.

 

so i don't know, playing it cool at this point.