Why does it always seem like...

[easyguy]

...when the ice is broken with a girl, and you're just starting to feel comfortable talking to her, the boat sinks?

 

It's just so frustrating. *sigh* Maybe someday someone will give me a chance.

[fogi]

Hey man,

 

I know what you mean.

 

And allthough i haven't figured it out myself yet, i'm confident someday that boat will have a safe journey!

 

Keep your chin up!

[PocoDiablo]

Did you ask her on a date? If not, that is probably part of the problem.

 

Or, if you could post some details (hint, hint) maybe we can give some focused advice.

[Prenkle]

Just like guys sometimes have trouble reading the minds of girls. Girls have trouble figuring out why guys want too. If you don't tell me you like me more than a friend, then I'm going to treat you like a friend. Plus, do I really want to date someone who doesn't have the courage to express how they really feel about me? Rhetorical question. Answer is probably not. If they don't have the guts to get into a relationship, they probably don't have any guts to stay in one.

[Markers]

the analogy: no guts to start a relationship - no guts to stay in one is totally wrong.. there's no fear of rejection in relationship. That's what keeps guys of starting one.

[JonathanJonathan]

I have the same problem. Personally, I think the best relationship starts from a friendship which is why I tend to just try to establish by talking to them or whatnot. It hasn't worked because apparently they get tired of waiting and accuse me of leading them on (great way to weed out the girls that could care less for you, though).

 

I'd say continue whatever you're doing and eventually you'll find her. Yes, it's quite a downer but I think I've met a girl that sincerely wants to be with me. I'm taking it as slow as possible with her, and yet she's patient and hanging in there (and actually trying to speed it up, haha) but it's working out. Good luck

[PocoDiablo]

I have the same problem. Personally, I think the best relationship starts from a friendship which is why I tend to just try to establish by talking to them or whatnot. It hasn't worked because apparently they get tired of waiting and accuse me of leading them on (great way to weed out the girls that could care less for you, though).

No, that's bad. You are practically insulting these women by not making a move. Why else won't you go out with them, huh? Think about it.

 

You, dear sir, need to read this article I wrote:

 

Why you must ask her out on a date

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I'd say continue whatever you're doing and eventually you'll find her. Yes, it's quite a downer but I think I've met a girl that sincerely wants to be with me. I'm taking it as slow as possible with her, and yet she's patient and hanging in there (and actually trying to speed it up, haha) but it's working out. Good luck

Why would you laugh at that? She's trying to give you a MAJOR clue that she's going to dump you if you don't get your act in gear. Women want a man who acts like a man - MAKE A MOVE ON HER! Otherwise she might think you are gay, insecure, or plain just don't like her, no matter what you say.

 

Dude. Seriously. She's giving you a MAJOR HINT, and if you don't make a move, some other guy like me could just walk in, ask her on a date, and you'll never see her again. Do you know how many women I've met who were dating some guy for a few weeks/months and dumped him flat because I asked her on a date? You're biding your time until some other guy comes along and makes his intentions clear?

 

Thanks for holding her for me.... I'm sure that is what the guy who takes her is going to be thinking.

[Dating Coach]

Well said Poco!