Help! He dumped me and now he contacts me

[usababe]

I had an LDR with a guy for 2 months, we got on so well and contacted eachother via phone/e-mail everyday and visited eachother as often as we could, then all of a sudden he broke up with me saying the relationship didn't feel right to him anymore.

I was upset and hung up on him because it came out of nowhere but I decided not to let myself down so I sent him a quick message to say I didn't want there to be any bad feeling between us, he said no problem and I never contacted him again. So 2 months later one night HE sent me a text message asking how I am and what I've been up to. We texted back and forth for an hour like as if we'd never broken up, then he said he had to go but he would talk to me soon. This was a few days ago and I don't know if he's waiting for me to contact him now. I would like to get back with him but I don't know if that's what he wants.

I'm so confused as to why he would contact me after all this time. Does he just genuinely want to know how I am? why would he care? it's not like he has to worry about bumping into me! or is there something more to it?

[the yang to the worlds yin]

i'm sorry but it sounds like he found someone else and when that idn't work he came running back to you. if you were to go back to the way things used to be with him, it's vry possible the same thing would occur again.

[evy38]

The only thing you should be waiting to hear from him is; I'm sorry, I was wrong. Let's get back together. Everything else is meaningless distraction designed to keep you thinking of him. Don't fall for it and don't email him back.

[lovecrazy]

I honestly wouldnt contact him anymore...I would just keep NC it will best for this situation. I agree with the other posters as well!

[Sway1607307344]

I agree with Evy38, words are meaningless, actions count!! If he wanted you back, you'd be witnessing actions from him. It's hard to say why they will do this kind of thing, Perhaps he's been bored, nothing better to do, etc....and he's decided to contact you. Perhaps he's come 'fishing' for signs that you are still interested, perhaps he's hoping that his calls will lead to a 'friends with benefits' type of situation (which you don't want!!!!!!)....I dunno, it's hard to say and you havn't mentioned anything of what you were both discussing, which makes it harder to suss out why he may have come calling.

 

I'd personally ignore him and his calls. If he can dump you so callously a first time, he'd be more than capable of doing it a second and third time too!! You deserve better!