goldylocks Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 tomarrow i'm going to tell my bf that i love him. tomarrow will make a year since we have broke up, we continued the relationship after the breakup but things have never been the same. i still love him alot and we have never said i love you to each other since the break up. it hurts me alot and he probably won't say it back. but i just have to find out what he will do when i say it to him. i have to know if my feelings are going to be returned. please wish me luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meow18 Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 The only thing I suggest is that you only do it without expectations. If you have hope that he will feel the same, you will only be setting yourself up for possible heart break. You have to be able to realize that he could walk away without saying anything in response.. and you have to know that this possibility won't destroy you. But if you have already thought this through, then I wish you luck. Please keep us updated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CamGuy Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 .......good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldylocks Posted April 6, 2006 Author Share Posted April 6, 2006 thanks, my heart kinda feels broken not knowing. so i gotta take that risk. we were in love once i'm hoping we can get that back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shadows Light Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 Agree with Maggie 18... love is a gift. So, don't have any expectations. Good-luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skippy Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 saying "i love you" is about the feeling you have for a person.YOu should be proud that you know that you love someone and can say it. Nothing to be ashamed of!! Be proud of yourself for that. If it isnt receprocaited it is ok, Love shouldnt be conditional, it just means that the other party doesnt feel the same. Give it time and if it other party doesnt seems to feel the same, move on. Knowing in yourself that you have the capability to love and say "i love you" is far more important. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovecrazy Posted April 6, 2006 Share Posted April 6, 2006 I would just sit him down and say. We once had a great relationship full of love. I miss that...I love you.... or something corny like that. Be nice, and understanding of how he feels. Especially if you still want him in your life after this happens. Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Belle Posted April 10, 2006 Share Posted April 10, 2006 I'm sorry but I disagree with the other posters. From what you said yourself, you doubt he reciprocates these feelings. I feel that you are setting yourself up to get hurt. And continuing a pseudo relationship after a break up only sounds like he may be getting some fwb deal which I don't think is healthy for you since you're still in love. I think you need to take care of yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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