opinions appreciated - Should i just give up?

[fogi]

Guess it was all way too long ... so i'll make it nice and simple.

 

This girl does respond everytime i contact her but she never initiates contact (except one time to go by her place). Gender role? i honestly don't know ...

I can't seem to figure out if she's into me or not. It's kinda difficult to see if she's just friendly and that's that or if there is possibility for more... i can't say i really made things clear to her yet but it seems pretty obvious that i'm into her....

 

Also the difficult balance between the friend zone and being too eager/desperate?

[SilverManic]

If she said not to take it personally then don't take it personally but I would certainly advise telling her dirrectly how you feel. Sometimes people are compleatly oblivious to others feelings and unintentionally. I know I have been many times.

Good Luck,

~S.

[fogi]

Yeah i'm trying not to take it personally but it kinda seems strange though...on the other hand you're right if she said so , i should take her word for it ... no need second-guessing everything cause that would just ruin trust alltogether i guess...

 

But on the telling her how i feel ... i won't be seeing her for 2 weeks probably (holidays , so she is at home instead of uni.) ... i should tell her face to face right ?

Should i text her? or try and see if she texts me?

she's not online much so that's not an option...

 

Thanks already for your response!

[pos69sum]

have you gone out with her? is she aware of how you feel?

if i was in your shoes i'd probably try to arrange a date with her, and try to seduce her into my bedroom.