thrown away for the rats...

[sirberus]

I have been seeing my ex for about 9/10 months. We lived together at her place then eventually we got our own place. She is 4 months pregnant with what I hope is my baby. We fight alot. Mostly its my fault. Im a jealous bastard A few weeks ago we had a small fight and she left for her moms house. She said she cant deal with the fighting anymore. Eventually we got back together for like 3 days. I noticed she didnt want to kiss or show any affection at all. I asked her why and she said she doesnt like me like that anymore and her feelings for me have evaporated. That same night (i found this out later through her) she spent the night at a guys house (a guy she messed around with when we broke up a few months back). Then 2 days after that she stayed again at his house and slept with him. I mean sex.. begged and begged and what I got was 2 days. 2 days of acting like nothing happened. After those days I moved out. That was 2 days ago. Since then I've broke down and called her and snapped. I didnt really say anything bad but just asking how she could sleep with him. She finally had enough and said never to talk to her again. She wont let me go to the doctors appointments and she said if I want anything to do with the baby to talk to her in 6 months when its born. I wont know what sex it is and I wont have a say so in its name. But the worst thing is I wont have her. I am a huge mess.

[Sexychiick16]

Your the one who tried to fix it and Shes the one who refused.

 

Just from this right here, i think that maybe shes having cold feet about being pregnant and when you went to try to kiss her, she wasnt feeling it because she thinks you may not stick around.

 

This is just the vibe im getting from reading this.

 

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Anyways, Im really sorry that you are feeling so down, I promise

that it will get better in time.

 

Do you have any buddies that you can spend some time

with, go out and play poker, whatever you guys do..

 

And if this will just upsety ou more, because guys do tend to

talk about their current girlfriends and what not, visit

your family, im sure they'd LOVE to see you.

 

*Good luck buddy*

[GottaLetItBurn]

From the outside looking in, I would say her not having you baby would be the best thing you could hope for. Yourself in the future (if you could look back to yourself now) would probably be yelling his * * * off to dump her and get on with life. Anyway, your really caught up with her so just forgetting about her probably isn't going to be something you will try and do.

 

This girl sounds really messed up, some girls just have a lot of problems. They weren't raised to be normal, have morals. That is something you can not fix, and I am really sorry that you got mixed up with this girl.

 

Just try and find somebody new if you can, and take care of yourself. Be a man and take care of your kid and tell her to screw off. Nothing could piss her off more then if you got a new girl that you cared about and you just give her money to take care of your baby.

 

good luck