2 girls....

[Maverick32x]

Ok, so heres my drama..... offer whatever opinions you want.. either in the form of advice, or just comments

 

I recently just got over this summer relationship, and was looking for someone else to sort of "fill the void" and had been with numerous girls, but hadnt really found any i was interested. well to make a long story short, i hit it off pretty well w/ an ex-friend of mine, from like 8th grade (im 20 now) and we had a great time, she was great looking, alot of fun. Well, my best friend (and room mate) totally hated her. he thinks she isnt good looking at all, and me and her could never work.

 

Well, i make my own decision, and went to see her some more and im pretty interested in her, however there are some things about her that arent that desirable. And admittably she isnt as good looking as most of the girls are that i date, but its not really a big deal to me.

 

Well, i recently met a girl that actually goes to my school (the other one doesnt) and she is drop dead gorgous, and super interested in me. However, her and my room mate had a thing the year before, and i know he gets sort of jealous when i hang out with her. And the most ive done with either girl is make out, since i'm not one to lead girls on too much, and i am interested in a relationship. but i have no idea what to do!??!

 

I want to date the orginal girl, but she goes to a diffrent school, (which is only 30 mins away, no car.. but i could take a bus?) but the other girl is way more convient, but can i live w/ my bestfriend/room mate's jealousy?

 

I'm trying to hang out w/ them more in diffrent situations to try to figure out who i like the most, but they are so diffrent its becoming harder and harder and i know they are both interested in me, and when one is calling me, and im with the other one just hanging out, its weird. And i dont want to be a player, and i try to be honest with them, but its hard since i dont want to push one away and end up getting screwed in the end. My one friend said im just dating so theres nothing wrong w/ seeing 2 people, but im not sure how much longer i can stay just friends before commiting..... so any advice/comments/thoughts are welcomed

[bobo85]

If you want to be exclusive with one girl, you better make sure she wants that too. I'd rather date the two girls until you are sure who you really want. But keep in mind that if you are allowed to date two girls...that means they can date other guys.

 

I know this sounds corny...but who do you see yourself with MORE in the future?

[puppy]

Hi

 

I don't think is a good idea to date two girls. It would be better that you take some time off and try to see which one is more suitable to your personality. Otherwise, one of the two girls will get hurt even more.

 

Also, what comes around will go around!

 

Woof Woof,

[Maverick32x]

ya, i dont want it to seem like i WANT to date both girls, but i want to make sure i make the right choice? since they are both really great girls and i enjoy spending time with both of them... ive hanging out with one for about 2 months now, and the other for about 3 months. So it hasnt been THAT long. I have no problem with them going out w/ other guys and stuff, since im not exclusive with either of them. But i defintly dont want to lead either one of them on, but its hard to make a decision!!!!